wtnhunt Posted October 18, 2004 Report Share Posted October 18, 2004 Re: need woman advice [ QUOTE ] As for some advice on the woman in your class, if you didn't talk to her, she may think that you didn't want to talk to her because you didn't say anything. Some women are shy that way and don't want to scare off a man by seeming desperate. If she smiled at you, then she isn't pissed off at you. With that said, just because a woman talks with you doesn't necessarily mean that she wants a romantic relationship. I assume you talk with men in your class, but don't think it means that you are going to date them(not saying you are gay, but a lot of men seem to think a woman has "led them on" because they talk to them and the woman only wanted to be friends) Be nice to her, I have to agree that a good sense of humor helps a lot, and if you want to get closer to her, invite her out for coffee or lunch under the pretence that you need some help with something in the class. That way if she isn't interested in you romantically, then it doesn't seem like you asked her out so you could date. It is a great way to help save face and hide any disappointment! [/ QUOTE ] Great advice there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RyanH Posted October 18, 2004 Report Share Posted October 18, 2004 Re: need woman advice [ QUOTE ] just wanted to say thanks to all of you who posted with advice. I guess all I can do is see what Monday brings. I'll let you all know what happens. Until then I'm going hunting [/ QUOTE ] So now that its monday we better be getting an update on this matter! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rackmaster Posted October 18, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 18, 2004 Re: need woman advice Well I went to class early today and got there before her, and sat on the bench outside of the classroom. she comes in and I said good morning, which she returned. she then sat down beside me on the bench. I looked over at her and said something, I can't even remember what it was but it must have been funny because she gave me a smile. we sat there for probably 5 minutes and she really didn't say much. we then went into the classroom and nothing was said. Then one of her friends walks in and tells her to smile , that she hasn't seen her smile in a few days. So I really don't know what the deal is. Maybe something is bothering her, i don't know. After class though she didn't waste any time leaving. I guess I will continue to be nice and see what happens. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
huntinsonovagun Posted October 18, 2004 Report Share Posted October 18, 2004 Re: need woman advice Dude, this sounds exactly like a situation I'm in. This cute blonde sits right behind me in my college Govt. class. She is shy though and not outspoken. I have talked to her a couple times, but man girls are tough to work with Weird huh. Get this.....there is a bench outside our classroom too. Just take it slow, you will know if she is interested. Tell her she has a pretty smile or pretty eyes. If anything, that will, in a way, let her know you think she is pretty, which a lot of guys will not come out and say. This will get her thinking about you. Girls like to feel noticed and pretty. Also, if she "dresses up," tell her she looks pretty today, not nice. All girls can look nice from time to time, not all can look pretty. Good luck buddy.....keep us posted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Washi Posted October 18, 2004 Report Share Posted October 18, 2004 Re: need woman advice Women PLEASE! PLEASE! do not speak to a man if you are not interested. We have plenty of friends already and the only reason we are speaking to you is because we are interested, not to be friends. I know this sounds harsh but it is true. Women always "say" they want you to tell the truth so here it is. I've given up on women but that doesn't mean I'm going to go the other way HuntingInMaine. I'd rather just be a hermit and avoid people all together, especially women. Oh and I don't think all women are psycho. I think they are all evil. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HuntingInMaine Posted October 18, 2004 Report Share Posted October 18, 2004 Re: need woman advice [ QUOTE ] I've given up on women but that doesn't mean I'm going to go the other way HuntingInMaine [/ QUOTE ] I personally don't care which side of the fence you are on...and sorry you have had such a hard time with the poor choices in women you have made... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
markyj987 Posted October 18, 2004 Report Share Posted October 18, 2004 Re: need woman advice Lots of pessimistic guys here who have been hurt by women it seems. More women for me...whoohoo! No, just kidding. Seriously though, women are fantastic. One thing I learned a long time ago is having a negative attitude about them will do absolutely nothing to attract them to you. It's normal to have your heart ripped out a once, twice, or a few more times than that during your lifetime. But HELLO, it doesn't only happen to us--it happens to women too. No matter how many times I was turned down--and Lordy, it was quite a few (LOL), I kept going back for more "punishment." It's just the way life goes. You need perspective on things. We can only control ourselves--not the thoughts and feelings of others. Sure, there are some bad ones out there, but how many of you guys have a female friend you know that keeps going from jerk to jerk? How many of you guys who have a buddy with a fantastic girlfriend or wife, but they treat her like dirt? How many of you know a woman that's been raped? I know too many of all of the above. The first woman I ever loved absolutely crushed me. Would I do it differently if I could have? Would I have told her to get lost even knowing what the future would've been? No way. As much of a cliche as this is, it's absolutely true--It truly is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved. Thanks to her, even years after the breakup, I still remember how good it felt when she smiled at me, gave me a back rub, or sat up and talked with me until the wee hours of the night. Any time I see a Happy Meal toy, I remember how she and I used to get happy meals and sit at my apartment playing with the toys...and we were in college...LOL I'm going on and on here, but seven years after we said our goodbyes, I have no regrets. If I were to die today, I'd at least have left this life knowing what it's like to truly have been loved in that way. And the lessons learned from her enabled me to have better, stronger relationships--even though things were rocky for a while. And yes, I was able to love again. The last bits of advice I can give on relationships as a whole is this. Unless you're happy with YOU, you cannot be happy in a relationship. Dr. Love..I mean Mark...has left the building...LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
10acboy Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 Re: need woman advice [ QUOTE ] If we women are such insane, motor mouths, who are devoid of logic or reason, shallow, and can't make up their minds, then why do you all have one in your life [/ QUOTE ] That's easy! Someone has to cook, clean, and take care of the young uns! I AM KIDDING Let me give you some advice that my father gave me - "Son, just smile and nod your head" Don't try to figure her out, that's impossible. Maybe her feelings were hurt because you didn't "notice" her, or maybe she felt that you were blowing her off. Maybe Monday will be a better day. Maybe you should go out of your way to see her so you can start a conversation if you are really interested in getting to know her better. Good luck brother. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HuntingInMaine Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 Re: need woman advice [ QUOTE ] That's easy! Someone has to cook, clean, and take care of the young uns! [/ QUOTE ] LOL Glad to hear we serve some useful purpose on this Earth! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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