Steven Posted May 24, 2003 Report Share Posted May 24, 2003 You did what you can and sometimes, that's just not enough. You can rest with a clear conscience that you tried. Sorry to hear. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sureshot Posted May 24, 2003 Report Share Posted May 24, 2003 Re: Just to let you all know what a crappy situation!! I am sure the kid realizes what you have done for him! That must of been a hard decision seeing what you all have went through in the last bit! I am sure you made the right decision though! Take care and good luck!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buckee Posted May 24, 2003 Report Share Posted May 24, 2003 Re: Just to let you all know That's crappy alright, It's obvious who loves the boy and who is just playing him as a card. I feel for you both, but I am also concerned about the child. The change in his attitude towards you both bothers me. Have you sat down with him calmly and lovingly and asked him if everything between him and his Dad is OK. Something may have happened between them, that has caused the boy to blame you guys...who knows If he doesn't want to talk about it or you feel he is holding back the truth, then maybe you should inform him that it looks like he will be living with his Dad soon, unless there is a good reason why he shouldn't.. If something Bad has happened between them, he may open up to you about it with the knowledge that he may have to spend a whole lot more time with his Dad. I don't know...I'm reaching here too, because I can imagine what you two must be going through. Keep praying for Gods intervention if it is his will. God be with you...all three of you. [ 05-24-2003, 02:04 PM: Message edited by: buckee ] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buckee Posted May 24, 2003 Report Share Posted May 24, 2003 Re: Just to let you all know I'm so sorry man...so sorry It's hard to find the answers, isn't it. I wish I had some magic words to tell you and everything would be OK, but only time will let the truth be known. Keep your doors open for him in the future, he may need someplace to run to where he is truly loved as he grows older. My hearts aches for you. I'll keep you in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
too_pointer Posted May 24, 2003 Report Share Posted May 24, 2003 Re: Just to let you all know wtnhunt, you certainly did what you could for the young man, and should be proud of yourself and your wife. Things don't awlays work out fairly or for the best, but I too hope he realizes how much you did and care for him. He is confused, and being that young is gotta be hard. I hope things work out for the best for him, and you stay involved in his life. God Bless. too_pointer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkeygirl Posted May 25, 2003 Report Share Posted May 25, 2003 Re: Just to let you all know Man that really stinks wtnhunt. I will be praying for theb oy and for you and your wife,what an awful situation.I wish I had the answer for ya but I don't.Hopefully both the boy and especially his father will come around.You are doing the right thing,just be patience,the Lord knows what he is doing and has plans even though it may not seem like it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dogdoc Posted May 25, 2003 Report Share Posted May 25, 2003 Re: Just to let you all know good luck---it does sound like you did everything possible within your power. I hope it all works out for the best in the long run!!!! Lots of prayers! todd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
archerjg Posted May 25, 2003 Report Share Posted May 25, 2003 Re: Just to let you all know That is terrible. You did what you could and now all you can do is be there for him if anything happens. Archerjg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
strubedog Posted May 27, 2003 Report Share Posted May 27, 2003 Re: Just to let you all know All you can do is pray and be there when he needs you. Have you tried getting a school counselor or someone to talk with him or a teacher? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest okladeerhunter Posted May 27, 2003 Report Share Posted May 27, 2003 Re: Just to let you all know I agree with racksup! Sorry to hear it, will be praying for you and your family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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