Tominator Posted June 22, 2005 Report Share Posted June 22, 2005 Re: Great weekend...also looking for advice [ QUOTE ] We talked on the phone and she is indeed funny, sweet, and seems pretty intelligent--but there is one thing that I think is totally unacceptable: she smokes marijuana. [/ QUOTE ] How do you find out that tid-bit in the first phone call? I'd never condone drug use, and playing saviour in a relationship is wrong, but I guess I'd give the relationship a try if she was really worth it. If you're looking for the perfect woman, one without faults--you're in for a long haul bud. JMHO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
markyj987 Posted June 22, 2005 Author Report Share Posted June 22, 2005 Re: Great weekend...also looking for advice Chris, I know what you mean. She, like my ex, has a daughter....though that's tough, I can deal with it. The fact that she has a daughter and still smokes pot...that really is a killer--and in retrospect, that kind of debunks my initial assessment of her intelligence. I'm not saying she's a bad person...but it does make me think she's irresponsible. Little things I can deal with...but on core values I won't compromise. Long haul or not, I can't see it any other way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tominator Posted June 22, 2005 Report Share Posted June 22, 2005 Re: Great weekend...also looking for advice Yeah, that would change my opinion too I think. At the risk of sounding like I'm judging people, Drug use is one thing, but using when you have children is really over the line. Don't want to sound like I'm preaching bud, but you and I go way back to our public school discussions, and well, I care about you bud, and *sniff sniff*...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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