AdvantageTimberLou Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? I'd go out with her, don't let her slip by as she could very well be "the one" If you don't call her you will always remember what if? Don't let chance get away, see what happens. Good luck!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newarcher Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? Sometimes what a person does for a living and what they believe are two different things. Go out with her, see what she's about, see if she has bad breath in the morning JUST KIDDING. Sometimes you can find a gem in the rough, so to speak. I agree with others,....unless you avitar is of your son, you are way too overthinking this process! Good luck, New Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RangerClay Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? [ QUOTE ] Dude, just go, out have fun. Maybe she is the one for you. Maybe she isn't. either way, what have you got to lose?...nothing. Sometimes opposites attract. A single date doesn't mean a life long commitment. just go out and enjoy yourself. [/ QUOTE ] I have to agree with Tedicast on this one. If she really likes you she may give up a few things to keep you. My wife gave her cats and a couple other things to be with me. She may have faults but they may be offset by the good things she can share with you. A heathy relationship is give and take!!!! If you really want everything that you were brought up with you can always date your Mom. jk Ranger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZooBear Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? Go out and have fun. But no matter what always remember..., WOMEN ARE EVIL! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hillbilly Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? [ QUOTE ] OK....there's this girl at work, who is VERY attractive. I liked her, and was going to ask her out (about a month ago) and then found out she likes going to the club, drinks occasionally, etc... Now, she is working at a casino. These are all things I have been raised up against. Anyway, her last day at work, she leaves her number on my truck. When she was around me all day, I could tell she wanted something....she was acting nervous. I know the feeling....I've been there before. Anyway, I called her, to try to explain that I don't feel like a lasting relationship would ever come of us. I usually don't date girls if I KNOW that a relationship won't last...if I know, what's the point in dating? Anyway, we talked for a little while and I explained that I usually won't date girls that I know won't last, but I didn't specifically say anything about her. She had to get off the phone and said she'd call me back tomorrow (I called her on Sunday night). Well, here it is Thrusday, and I pretty much forgot about her....she never called, so I figured she got the hint. Don't get me wrong, I really like her, but I don't think it would last! So today, she comes in to work and talks to me a little and says she lost my number. She gives me hers again and says to call her. Also says she's not doing anything on Saturday night. Now....I don't know what to do! I don't know if I should take her out and try to explain what I'm looking for in a girl, or tell her over the phone. I don't want to lead her on, but at the same time it may be good for her to see want I am looking for in a girl and she'll know that she's not what I'm looking for. I know SO many guys that would love to be with her, even if it's a one-night thing. I'm just not that kind of guy. I want to find the right girl and fall in love.........but not till hunting season's over..... Tell me what you would do (everyone except JB...I know your answer) [/ QUOTE ] You miss 100% of shots you don't take. You never know she might end up being Mrs. Huntin'sonovagun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dodge4x4 Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? ask her to go hunting, treat her to deer meat chilli for breakfast, and then go out and hunt and don't stop fartin the entire time...well...that's what'd i'd do. lol. j/j Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orion_70 Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? I'd say date around until at least 35 ... then just hunt... they're way too much trouble.. Does she work at the black jack table by any chance? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeramie Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? [ QUOTE ] Take her out for dinner and talk. Your not giving her a chance to get to know you and your not giving yourself a chance to get to know her. [/ QUOTE ] And thats it in a nut shell..... Just because she is like that now, it doesnt mean she cant/ wont change. If my wife based our relationship off of how I lived we would have never went out the first time! People change man! Once she realizes that the drinking/ party thing may not be the best for her she could do a 180. Then again she may not but if you dont give it a chance youll never know! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smitteken Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? HSOG try not to judge her this early. I know you know her pretty well but you two are both young and people can change there ways. Chances are if shes been doing what shes doing for a period of time and hasn't met someone, maybe she sees something in you. Women will do a lot for an honest down to earth guy. Give it a whirl. -aaron Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LifeNRA Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? [ QUOTE ] .........but not till hunting season's over..... [/ QUOTE ] Thats what I would do! LMBO!!!!! But seriously, only you and your heart knows whats best! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tominator Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Takes awhile to learn a person, you might be surprised. Call her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newarcher Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? Well, think of it this way.....it is a chance for you to change her through setting a good example. Then what you would have is a girlfriend or wife with a little...,ahem.....wild streak in her. Not at all a bad thing. New Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hutchies Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? People change as they grow older and mature. Alot of times the heavy drinkers are the ones that hardly drink at all once they get older. I am a case in point. I used to drink like a fish, smoke, club. Now none of the above. Just because you know what she used to do does not mean that she still does it. She may have been drug along by friends or she may have been the DD. Give her a chance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeramie Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? I saw "JB" Out to the side and knew this post was worth re-visiting! btw Jerod, im PM'ing you Dr. Phills Personal Number. I think you two should talk.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
huntinsonovagun Posted November 4, 2005 Author Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? Thanks guys....can't say I didn't get a good laugh in today!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reloader Posted November 4, 2005 Report Share Posted November 4, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? [ QUOTE ] another thing that Jeramie brought up I love them psychologist that bring a "couple" to therapy that have no business being married...he is with three women weekly and she has at least two other boyfriends... but ooooooh that psycho therapist is raking in the bucks making them think they are "in love" whatever....... [/ QUOTE ] I wish I was raking in the bucks man! My last agency payed just under $15 an hour with crappy benefits, current one pays $20 per client but you can only do 20 clients a week max no benefits. And that is with a Masters degree! on a serious note... In couples counseling I seek to find out why they are having problems. If they are solvable(and they always are if both are willing to work on it) then we work on it. If neither is willing to work on the relationship...then it is dead and I say see ya later, have a great life. The senario you mentioned falls into this category. That relationship is dead unless God resuscitates it! If one wants to work and one doesn't I will see them individualy and tell the one who doesn't want to change..."piss or get off the pot". If you don't want to be in the relationship then get out, if you do then shape up. If they don't want to work I will do grief counseling with the other to help them move on. Like you said earlier you fall into lust but you grow into love...I add to that Love is a choice not a feeling! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ruff Posted November 5, 2005 Report Share Posted November 5, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? What is this DR. Phill?? I would say you have your morals and Should stick to them. But also I would give it a shot that way you'll know for sure and not spend day's wondering what she might have been like. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mathews4life Posted November 5, 2005 Report Share Posted November 5, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? I guess it woulnd't hurt just to go out for one night, i mean you cant shoot deer at night so its not like your goin to miss out on a hunt and the Realtree forums will be here when u get back.....WAITING FOR A STORY OF COURSE!!! You never know man opposites attract. It takes more than just work interaction to get to know a person. You cant just blow her away bc of the imperfections that you see. We all have our imperfections and maybe after u get to know her u will find out that to you she is a woman of perfection. If nothing comes of it you will at least have a friend out of it, just be honest and let the pieces fall where they may. Ask her if her dad owns any prime hunting land!!!! anyway thats just my opinion bud, i'm kind of in the same boat right now, but who knows give it a go!!! Mathews Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SaskMan Posted November 5, 2005 Report Share Posted November 5, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? You'll never know unless you try!!! Hindsight is always 20-20 but you could end up wondering "what if?" You won't be left wondering if you go out with her! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slughunter Posted November 6, 2005 Report Share Posted November 6, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? i would take her out and get to know her better, you never know until you take her out and know get to know here personality. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Illinoisbowhunter Posted November 7, 2005 Report Share Posted November 7, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? [ QUOTE ] You are way too young to be worried about if you will marry this girl. Go out, have a good time, enjoy the ride. Open your mind and you may find out she is a nice person that you would like to be with. Don't force the falling in love. When it happens it happens. Making it happen is kidding yourself. Just like buying a new vehicle, test drive as many as possible to see what's available. [/ QUOTE ] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DaveGP Posted November 7, 2005 Report Share Posted November 7, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? i agree with everyone else... go out and have some fun and dont worry about what happens... whatever is meant to happen will! dave Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdvantageTimberLou Posted November 7, 2005 Report Share Posted November 7, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? [ QUOTE ] What is this DR. Phill?? I would say you have your morals and Should stick to them. But also I would give it a shot that way you'll know for sure and not spend day's wondering what she might have been like. [/ QUOTE ] If this was Dr. Phil we'd be saying, what the **** are you thinking boy, you have a nice looking woman with a job wanting to date you? Did you fall off a turnip truck on the way to the market? Your out looking at all kinds of cows when you have the milk right here boy? What are you thinking? LOL!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest chicks_hunt_to Posted November 7, 2005 Report Share Posted November 7, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? this is funny this is coming from a woman just tell her the truth she wont be nearly as upset if she finds out that you really have been lieing to her JUST TELL HER Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hillbilly Posted November 7, 2005 Report Share Posted November 7, 2005 Re: What would YOU do about this girl?? Dr. Phil would say... Its in my book! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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