MichiganHuntr1 Posted November 8, 2004 Report Share Posted November 8, 2004 A friend of mine had a party last night. Everyone was invited. So you know my Girlfriend and I had to go. I didnt know there would be Beer there. For the record, my Girlfriend and I dont drink. And so we get to talking with all of our friends. Some of them were drinking, and some of them were acting pretty dumb. My Girlfriend and I go different ways for a couple of minutes. She goes her way and I go my way. 15 minutes go by. When I look over to where she was, I noticed she isnt with the girls, instead, she is away from everybody, and there is another guy squeezing her by the arm. At first, my dumb self didnt know what was goin on. I didnt know he was hurting her, so i get up and start walking there way, then i hear her scream get the heck off of me. He grabs her by the butt as well. I exploded. At this point, I am running across the yard, and fast as I can go towards him. When I get there, i grab hold of his shirt, and throw him on the ground. And I hate to say it, I beat him up. This kid just happened to be Chris, a very good friend of mine, or so I thought. After I hurt him my friend Chuck and I grabbed him by his shirt, and took him to his car and told him to go home. He asked My Girlfriend to take a walk with him out back. Where nobody was. She then said no, and he got mad, and grabbed her by the arm, and told her to come with him. Thats when she yelled, and I came running. As much as I hate to say it, I beat him up. I dont like fighting, but something came over me. My other senses werent working too well after that. I was too angry. Supposedly, he smelt like alcohol. And yet, my dumb self let him drive home. Not even thinking he couldve been drinking. But he made it home. With bruises, and im sure a pretty bad cut under his eye. I know it was stupid of me guys, but I love her. And when I seen her yelling at him, and he was grabbing her, I thought i needed to protect her. My Girlfriend is fine, she was just a little shocked that it happened. But we layed with each other (nothing else) on the couch for the rest of the night......Awww...its cute isnt it.... All I can say is, Im not going to say im sorry to him, but i feel bad. I dont like hurting somebody. It was though, for a good reason. Chelsea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VermontHunter Posted November 8, 2004 Report Share Posted November 8, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... WOW !! All I can say is give it time to cool off..but I know where you are coming from me and my wife don't drink either and it's hard to tolerate someone that's drunk...hope it all works out... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NY911Bowhunter Posted November 8, 2004 Report Share Posted November 8, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... Dude - you did EXACTLY what any sane, responsible male would have done - no questions asked. If I were in your shoes - I would have doen the same. Kudos for standing up for your girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MichiganHuntr1 Posted November 8, 2004 Author Report Share Posted November 8, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... I Could care less if he apologize's to me, its if he apologizes to Chelsea. He will no longer be a friend of mine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nut Posted November 8, 2004 Report Share Posted November 8, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... Dustin, it shows well on yourself that you feel bad afterwards for what happened. You were right in defending your girl friend's honor but you also recognize that you didnt like the rage it caused. I do not enjoy fighting either. Luckily I have not done it in years(cept for wrestling with my sons). I also know that I would not hesitate to do whatever I had to to defend them. Alcohol is the cause of many altercations and other things unnecessary. It makes people stupider than what they normally are(why I dont drink ) I hope you and Chris will be friends again . Hopefully he will see what he did wrong and apologize to your girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RyanH Posted November 8, 2004 Report Share Posted November 8, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... I think you did the right thing! I would have done it but 10 times worse prob! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wtnhunt Posted November 8, 2004 Report Share Posted November 8, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... Would have done the same as you in your situation aside from letting him drive himself home. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thebig1 Posted November 8, 2004 Report Share Posted November 8, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... good for you bud! if that were me, and i were with a girl i liked or cared about, i'd put more lumps on him than he could rub! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Palssonater Posted November 8, 2004 Report Share Posted November 8, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... Nothing wrong with what you did man. I probably would have pummelled that guy until he needed some dental surgery. I don't like fighting. It makes my eyes water and hurts. But there are just some things you have to ring the bell on. Its one thing to push up on another guys woman. But its another thing to hurt her and try and drag her to where no one is. Guys like that should be watched. Alcohol or not, he's a dangerous guy. Even if his tendencies only come out when he's intoxicated, they will always be there and who knows who he will try to take out back next time. Even if he's just a "randy" teenager, those tendencies point towards rape. Not a good thing and I am glad you tuned him. Congrats on being red-blooded. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hornaddiction Posted November 8, 2004 Report Share Posted November 8, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... You did the right thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MichiganHuntr1 Posted November 8, 2004 Author Report Share Posted November 8, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... [ QUOTE ] I hope you and Chris will be friends again . Hopefully he will see what he did wrong and apologize to your girl. [/ QUOTE ] I dont ever want to be friends with him. Now that I know he is that bad, I never want to be friends with him. Ill never be able to look at him without being mad. So far, no apology to her, and the day is half way over. Let me tell ya, everybody in our school knows about what happened now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wtnhunt Posted November 8, 2004 Report Share Posted November 8, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... He owes her an apology no doubt about it. Would not blame you one bit for not wanting to be friends with him ever again. Alcohol or not trying to do what he was persistant in trying to do makes me angry as a father to two girls. He did he deserves to take a tail whipping and is lucky that he got stopped before he did something to hurt an innocent young lady and end him up in jail. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sasksheds Posted November 8, 2004 Report Share Posted November 8, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... Booze is no excuse for being a bone head!You did the right thing.Like Ryan said,I think I would have done worse.The guy wouldn't have drove home.He would have gotten a ride! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NY911Bowhunter Posted November 9, 2004 Report Share Posted November 9, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... [ QUOTE ] The guy wouldn't have drove home.He would have gotten a ride! [/ QUOTE ] Yeah......in an ambulance! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canadian_Shooter Posted November 9, 2004 Report Share Posted November 9, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... good job man....im sure anyone would have done that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canadian_Shooter Posted November 9, 2004 Report Share Posted November 9, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... good job man....im sure anyone would have done that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MichiganHuntr1 Posted November 9, 2004 Author Report Share Posted November 9, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... LMBO!!! The funniest thing happened today in Biology Class. The teacher asked him what happened to his face. He said, I got in a fight to the teacher. Im sitting right behind him by the way. The teacher then says with who??? I then say with me. And if he ever tries grabbing my girls butt again, He will be in alot more pain than he is now. He shrugged, and it seems like he was laughing. So I leaned right next to him and said, you think thats funny do you. I was acting like a real jerk. But im still ticked off at him. He then said. No...Of course not. I said, good you better not. My teacher then butted in and said, Boy, you sure mustve beaten the crap out of him. Hes scared of you. The entire class laughed at him. Im sure that was embarrasing. BTW, No apology yet....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
billygoat Posted November 9, 2004 Report Share Posted November 9, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... Sounds like he still doesn't get it! Stand with that girl of yours and hold your ground... If he is or ever was a true friend he'll come around, and if he doesn't he ain't worth it anyways. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wtnhunt Posted November 9, 2004 Report Share Posted November 9, 2004 Re: A Fight with a Friend... Seriously think if he does not seem to have learned his lesson that you might lead him to believe that your girlfriend wants to press charges on him for assault. If he thinks he got away with something he might have done that type of thing before or might do it again just to someone else. Maybe talk with an unbiased teacher or counselor at your school and see if they can help you out. That type of behaviour is very serious! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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