Please help

[Guest goose21]

alright guys heres the scoop:

So im at the bball game last saturday w/ a bunch of people. we were in the hallway outside the gym and i see this 8th grader that i know and say hi (keep in mind that im a 10th grader). she comes over and gives me a hug cause i havent seen her in a while

so we talk a little bit and my friends and i leave and we go and see Hostel the next day(go see it, it is awesome) so in the movie my phone rings and it is her. (oh yeah i forgot to tell u that i work w/ her sister whos in 11th grade and am good friends with her) so anyway i tell her i will call her back cause im in a movie, so i call her back and she says she was just bored and wanted to talk and then we got to talkin about wat we were doin that night and she says that she cant leave her friends house adn wants to know if we want to come over. well we were already on our way to my friends house so we dropped off a bunch of people and three of us went over to where she was. we talked and left after like twenty minutes.

no big deal. well the next day i found out she really really really likes me. she calls me and we talk for like 45 minutes (she doesnt stop) then i finally get her off the phone and she calls back like 3 hrs later

and we talk again

so today her sister came up to me (not mad) but just wanted to know waht was goin on

she acted like she didnt want me to talk to her sister

but i heard she gets like that with anyone her sister talks to in her grade

anyways, now im stuck

boys im not goin to lie

this girl is good lookin adn i havent had a gf in a long long time

but i dont want her sis to be mad at me and she is in only 8th grade when im in tenth

im not going to do anything bad trust me i havent even yet and dont wnat to just yet (if u know wat im getting at)

i mean im only a sophmore adn a young one at that, there are freshman older than me not time for that

what do i do guys

she is two yrs younger and i know taht doesnt sound like alot but in HS it is

there are guys me age datin 8th graders but i dont know

help

[Guest lovinbowhuntin247365]

Re: Please help

well, if its anything like my skool, youll get ragged on like a constipated man in a public bathroom for goin oiut with a girl in middle skool ... but if she likes you and you like her ...but then again, theres always tyhe sister to factor in ... talk to her sis, shell probably understand, especially if shes your good friend, and tell her that you really like her little sis, and you are thinkin about askin her out ... if she dont want you to go out, dont ... just keep in touch ... theres always that chance in the future ... if her sis dont care, id say go for it ... just treat her really well, and if you dont wanna be with her, get her to break up with you, so you dont lose any friends ... like subtle things, just give her a hint that you dont really like her anymore ... and if things work out, then shell break up with you, and you can sit there and say thats what you wanted to talk to ehr about, so it looks like a mutual decision ... but whatever you do, talk to ehr sis about what youre plannin on doin next, at least concernin that ... get help from older sister, no one knows the girl like her sister ... hope this helps, and if i left anything out, let me know!!!

o and ive been in this situation before, this works

[hoyt_hunter]

Re: Please help

im guessin that this girl is from your school? If so maybe that's a problem, but im leanin more towards not a problem. I had a friend who was a junior at the time and he went out with a 8th grader(from another school) but it worked fine. As for the sister, is she a possibility?jk