RyanH Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Ok guys, I got a problem. I have never EVER needed help in the Girl Department, but im in need right now! There is a Girl I work with, she is SO beautiful, but not only beautiful, but she HUNTS! So anyway i have been told she knows I have the hots for her. Well her and A couple others, and I go hunting for Coyotes, and we all had a great time. She even rode with me where we were hunting. We had pretty good conversations and stuff. We through out the day she kinda walked beside me, and at lunch sat beside me, just a bunch of small stuff that im not sure if they are hints or not. So my problem is, I have put on some weight. So im not all the confident like I used to be. And for some reason she just intimedates me. I dont know why. I have never had a Girl put this kind of affect on me. Also after the day was over I realized that she didnt complain ONCE about walking and all the crap we did. She just Went with it. BIG TURN ON! Im just in a pickle and dont know how to approach her or if I even should. Please help! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VermontHunter Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! [ QUOTE ] Im just in a pickle and dont know how to approach her or if I even should. [/ QUOTE ] Why wouldn't you ?? and why shouldn't you ?? I'd say suck it up and ask her out, from what you described she enjoyed your company,, what have you got to lose you loser.... GO FOR IT MAN...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RyanH Posted March 3, 2006 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] Im just in a pickle and dont know how to approach her or if I even should. [/ QUOTE ] Why wouldn't you ?? and why shouldn't you ?? I'd say suck it up and ask her out, from what you described she enjoyed your company,, what have you got to lose you loser.... GO FOR IT MAN...... [/ QUOTE ] I know man, But like I said, she imtimadates me. NEVER HAD A GIRL DO THAT! It like my dream girl right there and I cant do it. I dont know why! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VermontHunter Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! Stop cowering and get to it....be a man bud.... Just joking with ya.. ... I know where you are coming from, I had the same feelings when I met my wife.... I'd say make it another group outing, but for dinner this time, and feel things out in a different setting... Other than that your prety much on your own... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimfrompa Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! Nothing ventured nothing gained. So many people loose out on what they are ment to be because they don't act on what they know they should. Come on what does it take??? a knock on the head??? If you never act you'll never know. If you misread her signals move on man. Courtship is the way to go here. She might be the one she might not who knows. you won't if you don't try. Hang in there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RyanH Posted March 3, 2006 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! Thanks Jim and Luke. Im just having a Hard time confronting her! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dogdoc Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! I'd go for it partner. Worse case she says NO and all you've hurt is your pride for a short time. If she says yes you might have a great future with a girl that shares the same interests as you. good luck partner todd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
archerjg Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! Go for it. Even if you stumble some asking her out go for it she sounds like she might be interested. I have the same problem if I am not trying to date a girl I can talk to them if I want to ask them out I lose all confidence and can't seem to bring up the courage to ask them out. Archerjg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ODH Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! go for it, I worst that could happen is what happened to me, alone and broken hearted. But I got over it, it just took alwhile after she broke up with me. and man was she hot, I'll tell ya, lol. just dont date her if she flirts with other guys WHILE YOUR DATING like my X did! I havent spoken to her in 3 months even at school Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevebeilgard Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! listen to vermont hunter. she's already done all she can to get your attention. show her some. or, step back, and let another guy step in... lol. go get her, buddy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tominator Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! Approach, approach. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
007hunter Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! I wouldn't worry about the extra weight put on. From my experience with woman is that to them looks isn't everything....but then again I could be way off base (They are so confusing). As for asking her out I agree with the other guys just go for it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slughunter Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! go for it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RyanH Posted March 3, 2006 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! Man you guys are just straight foward! LOL How should I do it? I mean I normally could talk to any girl! But she is different and I dont know why! So how should I do it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruce Schmeck Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! Don't be such a wuss!! Step up to the plate or get out of the way and I'll come down there and show you how it's done! I've been looking for a woman like that for years. The worse that can happen is she'll say no! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RyanH Posted March 3, 2006 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! [ QUOTE ] The worse that can happen is she'll say no! [/ QUOTE ] I know but I hate being told no! LOL! I think I might talk to her today! Anymore Advice before I do this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LifeNRA Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! [ QUOTE ] So my problem is, I have put on some weight. [/ QUOTE ] Try SlimFast.... Just ask her out! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RyanH Posted March 3, 2006 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! She comes into work in about 2 hours! So Wish me luck! Im sure Ill be talking to her pretty darn soon! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doughboy1956 Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! The love bug bit you bad. The best of luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
huntn4bucks Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! Are there others at work that you go to lunch with. If so, tell her that you and so-and-so are going to lunch and was wondering if she wanted to go also. That way it won't be awkward with just the two of you and will seem less like a formal date. Give that a try and see what happens. Good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarvDog Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! DUDE! It sounds like this is a no brainer! Just invite her somewhere...maybe go shopping at Bass Pro/Cabelas or something! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newarcher Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! Listen,....I know enough about women to know that if she is hanging by your side after knowing that you have the hots for her....she's interested. Short of walking up and sticking her tongue in your ear, there is little precious else that she could do. Just say this: You know Helga, I was thinking back about the hunting trip we took and I had a great time hanging around with you. Would you like to maybe go hunting again or perhaps go out to dinner sometime. See that gives her an out if she was just trying to pick up some yote hunting tips from you yeah right. I digress. If she wants to take it slow then she can choose the hunting option. If she has the hots for you, then she might just choose the dinner option. One thing I do know about girls is that if they don't like you and don't want you asking them out (especially if they know you like them), they will avoid you like the plague. Ask her out, I am sure she will say "yeah right", I mean YES! New Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarvDog Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! Ryan - Sounds like you've got plenty of great advice! Now...go RIGHT NOW and talk to her. Then come back, open your browser, navigate to the Realtree Forums and let us know when and where you're going!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leatherneck Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! Go for it Buddy whats the worst that can happen?.....You ask her out, she says no in front of all of your friends and coworkers, embarrasses the crap out of you, makes you feel 2 inches tall, and ruins any chances of you ever asking another girl out for the rest of you life, so you live alone till the day that you die, broken hearted with no self confidence??? Come on that aint so bad hehehe!! J\K man! Get'er done and let us know how it turns out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tominator Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Re: I need some help! [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] The worse that can happen is she'll say no! [/ QUOTE ] I know but I hate being told no! LOL! I think I might talk to her today! Anymore Advice before I do this? [/ QUOTE ] Well, heck, everybody hates rejection. You live a pretty safe life if you don't take any risks. Try this: "Hey, want to go out tonight?" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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