joebobhunter4 Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 ok today a kid smoked the car behind me at a stop light and the car got pushed into my car... so i come home... my mom really iis alright about it... then once she takls to her husband would be my like step step dad... not related to me so he has no right to tell me what to do... tells her i cant drive no more for a while... so she goes with him and gets all mad at me about it... i mean what was i supposed to do run the red light so the guy didnt hit me from behind... i mean its not my fault and not like i can tell that the guy behind me was gonna hit me... idk you give me your opinion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canadian_Goose Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 Re: tell me if i should be in trouble... I think you are no way at fault and your step dad has no justification in taking away your driving prioviliges. It sounds like an uneducated decision (unless your only telling half the story). If you are telling the whole truth and not hiding from it, not only should the insurance agens be on your side, but your parents as well. It's to bad your mom was so infleunced by her fiance. Did you ask them why they were taking the car away? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dakota Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 Re: tell me if i should be in trouble... If they can't realize that they are just plain dumb! They are wrong in doing that and are not seeing the entire story> Dakota Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shaun_300 Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 Re: tell me if i should be in trouble... It doesn't sounds like you should be in any trouble at all man. It wasn't your fault! Your step dad has no right to get upset about it, and your mom shouldn't have taken his side. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest outdoorgirl Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 Re: tell me if i should be in trouble... F Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest outdoorgirl Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 Re: tell me if i should be in trouble... First off you didn't say if the police were involved....which they should of in any accident....thats where you made your mistake....a report would of been made saying who was at fault. this would of cleared you of any wrong doing on your part......as far as a step father goes....If you live under his roof I think he has the say along with your mother on you using the car. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NiteRunner Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 Re: tell me if i should be in trouble... I agree with Outdoorgirl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Kat Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 Re: tell me if i should be in trouble... Yup, ya shoulda called the police man. Did ya exchange insurance an all of that stuff? If not maybe thats why they were mad? I see no way that you could have prevented the wreck without risking a more serious one by pulling forward. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joebobhunter4 Posted June 11, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 11, 2006 Re: tell me if i should be in trouble... the cops came and everything... they got it all dealed pictures and everything of the damage... but they are being kinda a little less mad about it now because my back hurts so maybe thats why they are being a little be more leiniant of it... and the truck barley had any damage on it so i dont think i should be that much in trouble now because all i did was stopped at a stoplight and someone hit me... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Texan_Til_I_Die Posted June 12, 2006 Report Share Posted June 12, 2006 Re: tell me if i should be in trouble... If your stepdad got angry with you for something that was clearly not your fault and totally unavoidable, then I'd say you've got some deeper, underlying problems between the two of you. How is your overall relationship with him? If it's strained or outright hostile, it might be time to get some outside counciling and see if you can clear things up before they get any worse. I know that's easier said than done, but it may be your only option. If you go to church, that would be a great place to start. Talk to the pastor about it. If you don't go to church, a school counselor could also help you out. Heck, you could probably just go to your favorite teacher for some advice and they will at least get you pointed in the right direction. Bottom line, if there's a problem between you and your stepdad, get it resolved or your life will just be flat miserable for many years! Good luck, and PM me if you think there's anything I can do to help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joebobhunter4 Posted June 12, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 12, 2006 Re: tell me if i should be in trouble... na its not that... we r fine sometimes but he jus gets mad too fast at things and doesnt think... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoss Posted June 21, 2006 Report Share Posted June 21, 2006 Re: tell me if i should be in trouble... from a stepdads point i agree with outdoorgirl. its pretty normal for alot of parents to over react at first. but then a day or two later they see there mistake and liten up. been there done that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilmissdangerous Posted July 1, 2006 Report Share Posted July 1, 2006 Re: tell me if i should be in trouble... Your Mom should have stuck with her statement and you should have not been in trouble. The car behind you should have been more resposable and should have also stoped. So in my opinion you should be able to drive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest huntinsanobsession Posted July 20, 2006 Report Share Posted July 20, 2006 Re: tell me if i should be in trouble... doesn;t sound like you did anything wrong and nothing you could have done i would say you shouldn't be in any trouble Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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