Yes sir/Yes ma'am??


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Re: Yes sir/Yes ma\'am??

Absoultely! That's the way I was brought up and same goes for my son. He's 19 now and he's still that way. I hope it sticks and he raises his own children that way too.

I've heard the same thing that Chris mentioned about it being a southern thing. At least that's what my buddy in Rhode Island told me not long ago. He was somewhat amazed about all the yes sirs he got when he came down to visit recently. He said you just don't hear that in Rhode Island.

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I think my parents always took it as disrespect when we said "yes mam, yes sir". It was more less a way of being snobby when told to do something you didnt want to do.

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Yup! Same here! ooo.gifgrin.gif

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Yeah I said it to my dad once when I was little, and he told me to never call him sir. I wouldn't want my kids calling me "sir". I wouldn't be a sir, but a dad. JMO.

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Nope.

I think that's a southern thing.

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I agree, No one I know here has their kids say that and my kids aren't required to say it.

Being cordial and polite has nothing to do with words sir or ma'am.

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I have a few friends that say it all the time. They get in trouble with drugs somtimes. But when it comes to meeting someone or somthing you ask them somthing they say yes sir or yes ma'am.

I dont say it i say alot of thank you's or i appercaitite(sp?). I say no or yes but i dont believe its rudly said.

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One thing I don't tolerate in my class or at home is "hey" I have that right on my syllabus in all my classes "If you address me as 'hey' I will ignore you."

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Oooo! I like that! I will have to remember that one.

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I do require them to call an adult Mr. Miss, Mrs., whatever the case may be.

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I do the same thing.

60% of my students are military. They are usually the ones who say "Yes Sir" and I don't care for it. I will usually ask them if I am their commanding officer and ask them to say, "Yes Mr. H."

There is one thing that always grabs my attention. In a 180 day school year I can count on one hand the amount of times a student says, please or thank you. If a kid says one or the other I make it a point to thank them for being polite.

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