Buckslayer Posted March 9, 2007 Report Share Posted March 9, 2007 Re: teenagers and sex??? [ QUOTE ] Also dont forget that if he has had sex ed at school he may have gotten it there. Planned parent hood used to pass them out at school break,sporting events, concerts and the like. [/ QUOTE ] Great point... many sex ed classes now hand out condoms. I had some sort of "talk" in 6th grade. That talk, and also hunting too much to attract girls, Haha, kept me away from the act until well after I was 20 yrs old. Sit him down, and scare him in the calmest way possible! Arguing isn't the answer - lots of information is. Being frank is good as others have said. Good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
py_archer Posted March 10, 2007 Author Report Share Posted March 10, 2007 Re: teenagers and sex??? Well, I talked to him a few days ago. He said he got it from one of his friends who took it from their older brother and that they thought it was funny. We talked for awhile and then I gave it back to him with a final word of advice that unless he has to pee to just keep it in his pants. I think I got his attention the most when I explained to him that he WOULD be a father and that I'm not gonna go for no cut-n-run crap. One thing he said during our discussion that I thought was funny and you probably will too was "sex is different now then when you was a kid dad" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M00N Posted March 10, 2007 Report Share Posted March 10, 2007 Re: teenagers and sex??? In our school district to pass grade 6 you had to take a sex ed class and then again in grade 9 the same thing except more was explained and deeper conversations on the subject. In the grade 9 sex ed class series after class they always tried to pass out condoms to everyone. Most kids just took them because they were there and free. A lot lost the condoms by the next class because they did something stupid like water balloons in the bathroom or blew them up and stuck them in someone's locker. Most the kids just found them a toy and a way to "rebel" against the teachers. A few kids would carry them around "for show" and "bragging" rights, especially the guys. Not many actually used them for their real intentions, though a lot would try to claim they did to "be cool". Now grade 10 was a whole other story. A lot of the students were starting to become sexually active, which was very sad. Peer pressure on the subject became extremely high, especially for the guys. I had a lot of female friends who got pregnant their 10th or 11th grade years. I wasn't one to fall into that whole mess though. I knew it wasn't worth it just to be cool. Glad I didn't allow peer pressure influence me in that way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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