One man's perspective ...


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This came from a women's hunting group I am a member of -- I am sharing it with everyone!!! He has included his e-mail address at the bottom if anyone is interested or can help out ...

Hello, I am a concerned hunter. I am not concerned for myself,but for

that of my wife's right to hunt as well as other women hunters. My

wife has hunted for the last several years and has most recently

gotten into Bow hunting.

I recently had to leave a hunting club for the reason that the "GUYS"

were not comfortable with women being there before or after the hunt.

As it was explained to me, it was fact of not being able to be "GUYS"

when a woman was around. It was fine for a woman to hunt, but they

needed to to leave as soon as possible so the men could relax. I

understand that men can be gentlemen in the presence of a woman

and "GUYS" when they aren't around. I say this because,as a man, I

should know.

I live my life for my wife and kids, and would not do anything in

their presence that I wouldn't do without them there. I know the fact

of men being the meat providers is still strong in today's world.

Seeing that most of the meat comes from the stores, I don't why a

woman cannot hunt as easily as a man.

I have a friend who hunts and loves it as much as I do, but because

she is a female, she cannot join a hunting club. Knowing this, she

has to rely on the "true gentlemen" to take her hunting.

In today's hunting club its all about management; to provide food for

the animals, and to manage the animals with hopes to harvest one we

are proud of and display on our walls. I think that is a wonderful

thing, but we also need to manage ourselves. We need to encourage

hunting to everyone, be they man or woman. You always hear take a

child hunting or fishing, well why not a woman?

I wrote this to find help. I need help in finding places to hunt that

are family oriented, as well as open to the idea of women in the

sport. I have talked to several organizations, and it is always the

same; they never really can help. So I decided to do this.

I call on anyone that can help, who knows how to start an

organization- for I'd like to start one. Anyone who would be willing

to help, be it; land to lease, donations, or any other helping hand.

I know that there are organizations for women out there, but yet none

in the eastern part of North Carolina in which we live.

I write this for the love of hunting, the love of my wife, and the

love of my kids. Without women hunters or ones who support it, there

will be no future hunters.

So please pass this along to everyone on your e-mail list or simply

put it in the trash bin-its your call, but I will continue to look

for help in any way possible.

If you would like to respond, I am more than grateful to read your

responses-be it good or bad. If you are a woman hunter and have had

an experience such as this happen to you, I look forward to your

response most of all. I am not trying to change the world just the

way it thinks.

Thank you,

Rick

E-mail

j10man74@yahoo. com

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Guest Andrea

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That's a good read. And I am fortunate to not have had that experience yet. In my experience....the guys are astounded that a woman even showed up to hunt. Even more so when she brings back a deer. Pretty sad that there isn't a decent hunting camp up there where he's from. Makes you wonder what exactly it is these guys are doing when a lady isn't present. Scratch themselves? Get drunk? Talk bad about their wives? Do drugs? Have their girlfriends over??

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I'm sure glad they call themeselves "GUYS", because they sure aren't "MEN" ..LOL

Sad to see "guys" who still think this way. My wife doesn't hunt, but man o man if se said she wanted to try it, I would put my season on hold just to make sure she enjoyed herself.

I'm with Andrea here...what the heck are these "guys" doing at the club or in deer camp for that matter, that they couldn't do in front of a lady? confused.gif

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i never got a lease, but my sister and her ex did and they were hard on us, but they treated us good, they just thought we were dumb as rocks because we were females.....more like incapable of doing anything the men were doing, chainsawing, mowing, food plots, if they had only known what an asset we would of been to them in the field, lol...so we got stuck painting, lol......then we played in the woods while they were slaving, lol....but they didnt have a problem with us there at all.....it's ashame his wife got shafted.....i would look for another lease/club and ask them how they feel about the women folk first..not all are like the one decribed, that is so wrong..

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I've ran into that issue a couple times locally here at the gun ranges. Only guys can apply for membership, but they don't care if one of those guys brings a lady to the range, he just has to be responsible for her actions, and she isn't allow in the bar (like I really wanted to go in...not). I'll go to them with someone I know already has a membership, but everytime they bug me for donations while I'm there I ask them if I can have a membership first and they stop bugging me about it rather quickly. I don't see donating to them unless I'm a member which I never can be, so they'll never get my money. They are already getting money from the guy that brought me. smirk.gif

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WOW that is interesting!!! I hunt with guys all the time and I will admit they are GUYS around me and I dont mind. I dont have many girlfriends who hunt and the ones that do just hunt with there husbands but I encourage them to go alone or with me. I tend to enjoy hunting alone but sharing camp. This greatly upsets me as I havent experienced that type of rudeness alot. Granted i have some but I am hard headed and dont take much. Have you heard of WomenHunters.com? That would be a good place to post this question. I will try to care carry this on and see how I can help!!! Try your local Becoming a Outdoors woman and Women in the Outdoors organizations also!!

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