Ladies, I have a "boy question"


Turkeygirl

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Alright, most of you know me by now, 25 and single and I don't mind ab it, I like being independent and school, God, hunting, and getting a job comes first for me.

The lady my mom and I get our hair cut from, whom mom has known for ages, she has some nephew around my age who lives in tennessee and is coming up for a couple days. My mom and the hair lady were all over me last time we got our hair cut about what a great guy he is, smart, a work a holic, yadda yadda. They both were like you've got to meet him and go do something. Mom brought it up again tonight that I should be prepared.

I'm just not interested right now, I've got school to finish up, then I've got to work and make some money to buy my textbooks for the spring. I'm fine with meeting the guy and saying hi but I've been trying to think of something to do and it's not working. I guess he hunts but that is out of the question, hiking, not really something I do in the winter...I'm not coming up with alot ofthings, and I don't have the money nor want to spend the money on going to a movie or bowling or what not...not much of a movie person anyway.

So any thoughts, input, ideas on what to do?

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Not sure if this helps at all but, Steve and I just got back from one of our typical "dates". We grabbed a coffee and some doughnut holes and went down to the farm he hunts on. Parked on a hill overlooking the farm and watched 17 deer come out. Nice relaxing time and we still have most of the evening left.

If he turns out to be a keeper he'll invite YOU for dinner or whatever afterward. If not you're only out $4.70;)

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I like Ma's idea. LOL. :eek:

On a serious note, I really think you should go out and do something with him. It doesn't have to be an official "date" or anything, but if you two did go out to eat somewhere, and he was a gentleman he would at least pay for your meal, even if you just went to McDonald's! ;) Just because you go out with someone doesn't mean that you're automatically required to date them. ;) I just think it would be fun to go grab something to eat, or a coffee, then share some hunting stories, share interests, etc,. I mean really, what could it hurt?

Who knows, perhaps you two will hit it off real well..... exchange phone numbers and chat on the phone from time to time, perhaps even just as friends! ;) Never know, it could end up as being more! Take a chance and go for it! :D

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I gotta agree with Alisha. You deserve some time to get out and have fun. You have been hard at it with school and everything, what harm could come from at least meeting the guy. You are, by no means, obligated in any way after the initial "meeting". Who knows you might have a little fun and cut loose. And if he is not scared off by the fact that you know how to shoot, he might be alright! Alot of guys are a little intimidated by a woman who hunts. Give him a chance.

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