Muff Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 Well I really don't know how to say it....anyway I got home from my trip this weekend and wifey tells me that her sister is leaving her husband....they live here on the Island.....he is such a SUPER guy...I really don't know what is going on in her head:confused: plus my Brother tells me he sees her getting into a guys truck friday morning....this guy is a knowen cheater....plus the fact my wife golfs with his wife.....I am so tore up right now....I want to go down to this guys house and kick the ever living crap out of him:mad::mad: but I know that will not help anything....I just don't know what to do or say to my wife.....she is VERY upset with it all and all I want to do is hit someone....never been in a fight in my life....except for hockey.....but man I am so mad right now, for what I think this guy has done to our family.....don't ask for this to much.....but think of me and my wife tomorrow when your talking to the big guy would you.....I am very worried about her....those of you that know me well know what I am talking about.....thanks my friends Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hammerforged Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family, been there done that. It ain't fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
92xj Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 thats got to be tough, i have never been in that situation so I have nothing to give but my thoughts and prayers and they are with you and your family Muff Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hunt or be Hunted Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 buddy my prayers go out to all your your family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VermontHunter Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 Keep cool bud ,, this is trouble you don't want to deal with .. Just remember it took two to tangle .. Bad situation all the way around on this one.... Prayers and thoughts heading your way Joe ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrow32 Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 Prayers headed your way man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hogwild63 Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 I feel your pain. About a month ago, my wife's brother (my hunting buddy) tells me he and his wife are separating because she committed adultery.She says she still loves him but will not cut off the relationship. It is probably going to end in divorce and another family is split. My feelings toward her are best kept to myself so as to not add to the problems. As VH said, this is trouble I do not want to deal with. I will just be there for my brother-in-law (and my wife). Prayers to you and yours. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GWSmith Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 Prayers sent Joe...Your wife needs your honesty and support just like every other day of your life;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clrj3514 Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 that sure sucks! prayin for yall bud Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doe-ee Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 It's tough to watch people you love go through that kind of heck. Try to stay focused on supporting your wife. Don't let your frustration get physical. It will only end up hurting everyone more. They have to work it out themselves. Steve and I are praying for all of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Finn Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 Prayers sent your way buddy. Stay strong for your wife. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NS whitetail Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 Keep cool bud ,, this is trouble you don't want to deal with .. Just remember it took two to tangle .. Bad situation all the way around on this one.... Prayers and thoughts heading your way Joe ... I agree, as a rule........ If you get involved, you will probably turn out to be the bad guy Let it run it's course and I wish your family all the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PotashRLS Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 Good advice as always folks. I do however sense your extreme frustration and I share your desire to thump someone. I commend your composure because I know I would be having the same thoughts going through my mind. It makes me mad just reading your post. Just remember, what goes around comes around. Sometimes the big guy upstairs puts you in the right place at the right time;). Plus some tough love is necessary from time to time and you could tell your sister your feelings, including that you love her. I never was one to sit back and complain from the sidelines:rolleyes:, it doesn't sound like you are either. Thoughts and prayers for everyone involved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redkneck Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 Awful situation, and sometimes people have EXTREME errors in judgement and can reconcile their problems in the end. Sometimes tough love is needed and you have to cut your losses. I really hope things work out for your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adjam5 Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 Bad situation all around. Try to stay out of it and be there for your wife as she needs you. Prayers headed your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike13candace Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 Prayers first.. I went through it with my 1st wife... She told me on the eve of the first day of archery.. do you know what that is like to sit in tree stand with no sleep..thinking..thinking.. Trust me I wanted a piece of him, but it takes two.. I had a plan. Getting custody of my son was all I wanted. Well I won.. that is not easy to do.. he was 4 1/2 yrs. old.. So there is a bright side... hang in there... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
c_lou Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 Prayers for your family. That's got to be a tough situation. Keep your feelings in check. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbeck Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 Prayers sent Joe, for you and your wife. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tominator Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 You got it bud. Kind of going through that myself. My brother in law up and left my sister about a month ago. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wtnhunt Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 Sounds like a really messed up situation Joe. Like others have said, keep your cool and be there for your wife. Hope it all works out for the best for your family. Prayers on the way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rookieee Posted April 21, 2009 Report Share Posted April 21, 2009 Very tough situation,prayers for your family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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