fisherguy Posted February 13, 2005 Report Share Posted February 13, 2005 Well in light of all the crap going on here i will try and point out that reagardless of anyones view the whole censorship/martin girl/inconsistancy argument is really not a big deal. I know many people had strong opinions, but really, lets get back to what we have always done and share knowledge and some friendly jabs. I never have been the type to air my personal troubles in public but hey, gotta talk to someone. In the last 24 hours my second home(the forums) has gone nuts with agruing, banning, rude comments etc, my truck(2004 GMC sierra 2500 4x4) was totaled while parked in a parking lot while i was shopping(drunk driver, thank god he hit an empty vehicle), my insurance tells me it has depreciated $9 000 in the 3 months since they valued it for my insurance premiums (22 000 kilometres, no damage). Oh and here is the best part, My girlfriend of 2 years, who has been my best friend for almost 4 years broke up with me because "I deserve better, and she isn't being fair to me by making me change my plans to be with her". News flash, i changed plans because i love her, and tearing my heart into tiny little shreds isn't exactly making me feel all warm and fuzzy. The only faint hope is that at least it was friendly and hopefully this wont end our friendship. So there we go, life sucks, lets try to keep the forums from permantly being one big girl fight. P.S. I am expecting something good from JB...so don't disappoint me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesVee Posted February 13, 2005 Report Share Posted February 13, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. Can only go up from there man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tedicast Posted February 13, 2005 Report Share Posted February 13, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. sorry to hear about your probs fisherguy. Really sucks about your truck! at least he didn't hit a car with a family in it, and kill someone. As for the gf, the excuse that you deserve better...thats a cop out on her part. She had different issues than that, talk to her, maybe you can work it out, or at least you might find the real reason, which might make it easier to deal with. The forums will come around. It's not the first time everyone is at everyone elses throat. Hang in there buddy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fisherguy Posted February 13, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 13, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. Ya tedicast i know her basic issue is she is about to graduate Nursing and doesn't know what she wants to do or where she wants to do it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VermontHunter Posted February 13, 2005 Report Share Posted February 13, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. I really don't know what to say.....I feel for Ya...I really do... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robk Posted February 13, 2005 Report Share Posted February 13, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. fisherguy here is my take on this. as for your truck you need to make it known that the truck shouldn't depreciate that much and if you need to you can fight it and get you a new truck out of the deal. there are ways to arbitrate for your money situationa nd your new truck and seeing it was a drunk driver they should be the one who have to replace the truck unless he didn't have insurance then it;s going to be a court fight to get it where it should be. also will depend on the msrp for the truck as well. as for the girlfriend the best advice i can give is too not dwell on it even if you were madly in love with her. she apparently has issues and you don't need the henderance. 2nd there are too many women out there that will not come with laundry and a case of depression with her and try to pass it o to you. 3rd life is too **** short to worry about that man give it some time. it could be she is having to deal with her own demons and you don't need it and look out and find soemone new there willbe some lady r girl or betty or what ever you call them and she will knock you off your feet and wiull love you no matter what your probably pretty young and my oldest son has a tendency to find women who have been married and are seperated and i hope your not doing that either just lay back and let life come to you. life is too short to waste it on a person who is not in your league man and if she dumped you that way i am guessing she has someone else on the side or saw an old love and is wanting back with them. i have been married 4 times and htis marriage has lasted the other 3 by a long shot but it took me 4 times and there are times i think she is going to leave me and if she does i am not that old i couldn'tfind another woman to have fun with. i hope it doesn't happen but if it does it does rob k Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
archerjg Posted February 13, 2005 Report Share Posted February 13, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. Sorry to hear about all of that. It has to get better than it is now. Archerjg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ravin R10 man Posted February 14, 2005 Report Share Posted February 14, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. Man, sorry to hear all that...sometimes it all comes at once. Its got to get better, remember, there are more than one fish in the sea.....bait up!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fisherguy Posted February 14, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 14, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. Thanks guys. The truck thing i just called my lawyer(uncle so its free at least ) and he is dealing with it. the woman thing...well who knows i am always goin to love her, and it may work out. She is having a freak out about suddenly having to be an adult and choose where she wants to live and work. The forum thing...lets just hope we are on the way to smoother times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muff Posted February 14, 2005 Report Share Posted February 14, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. hey fisher guy you did not say anything about there is no %$^# hockey up here to watch....anyway sorry to here about your problems....the truck yes keep on them they get away with to much.....the girl you do know by now that they (women) are nuts (sorry girls) but they are...she will come back.... as for the forums...i think that rules are rules and if some people cann't live with it just leave....stop posting all these dumb things and getting everyone upset! JUST go away. its a bad time of year everyone is in a bad mood we will all get over it when we go out and whack a turkey! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ricfirefighter Posted February 14, 2005 Report Share Posted February 14, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. sorry to hear about your troubles as for the girl you can do better better truck you can do way better buy a ford Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tominator Posted February 14, 2005 Report Share Posted February 14, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. [ QUOTE ] My girlfriend of 2 years, who has been my best friend for almost 4 years broke up with me because "I deserve better [/ QUOTE ] Been there twice Jim, and it's been my experience you're better off in the long run, even though it hurts like heck right now. Were it not for the 2 previous breakups, I would have never met my wife, and I would never have had my 4 beautiful children. Things happen for a reason. Hang in there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buckbuster11 Posted February 14, 2005 Report Share Posted February 14, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. I feel for ya man....thats a rough 24 hours. As for the girl..you have to let her go. Like tominator said, things happen for a reason. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Andrea Posted February 14, 2005 Report Share Posted February 14, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. Take it from a woman...she left you for reasons other than what she said. That definitely was a cop out. She didn't want to be mean about it so she could keep you on the back burner. You should take her advice though...you DO deserve better! So don't worry about it too long. Your REAL soulmate is still out there looking for you. As for your truck...I HATE insurance companies!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wtnhunt Posted February 14, 2005 Report Share Posted February 14, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. Sorry to hear abotu your troubles, but Chris is right. Really think things happen for a reason. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkeygirl Posted February 14, 2005 Report Share Posted February 14, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. Wow fisher, I am really glad you were sitting in your truck when it got hit! As was said in chapel today, struggles help you grow and God likes to give us struggles to grow from. Hang in there! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fisherguy Posted February 14, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 14, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. Well a bit of a brighter point, apparently a phone call from a P O'd laywer does a bunch. Now the truck hasn't depreciated in the past few months at all, and the rental honda civic has been upgraded to Chevy Tahoe. That is good, my 6'7" frame didn't agree with the civic too well. Amazing how these "oversights" as they call them only happen whent they think they are dealing with a niaeve individual. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Finn Posted February 15, 2005 Report Share Posted February 15, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. Glad the truck got cleared a little. As for the girl, move on, brother....move on. Sounds like she's given an excuse to break up but has other issues. That, you can never fix. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sureshot Posted February 15, 2005 Report Share Posted February 15, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. Nice to hear a lawyer worked out a bit!Sorry to hear abotu the girlfriend!Things will look up trust me I have been at the bottom more than once and I roll right up, never to the top yet but someday when I win the lottery [or when liberals loose a election]lol!Best of luck and take care of yourself!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevebeilgard Posted February 15, 2005 Report Share Posted February 15, 2005 Re: And my world comes a crashing down. wow. sad tales. the truck thing seems to be working out. good to have a lawyer in the family, eh? the girl thing... i'd listen to turkey girl. your love is just wanting to move on, and let youdown gently. sorry may, but in a year, i'll bet you see things totally different. from a new windshield.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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