Ashley Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 Divorce is never an easy thing for people to go through, Randy, but you just have to keep your chin up. Just keep thinking about the good things that are ahead of you and don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buckee Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 Prayer said Randy. Be strong buddy. The Lord will help you work through it. If you need a friendly ear, I'm here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OJR Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 Randy, take a deep breathe and move on! Tough as it might seem, there are a whole lot of days coming that will be brighter! I wish I was there and could help you through this, but that is not going to happen! Wishing you nothing but the best! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wtnhunt Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 Sorry to see you going through this, hang in there Randy. Will keep you in our prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adjam5 Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 I am sorry to see you going through all of this. Stay strong and be there for the kids...keep your cool. Things will get better. Prayers headed your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tominator Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 You got it Randy. Like Luke said, one day, one hour at a time. You've got a lot of friends and support here, so don't hesitate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ohiobucks Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 Prayers sent from Ohio for you Randy, keep your head up buddy, there is a lot of good advice being given here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WHISKEYSWAMP Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 I helped a buddy get through a long heated divorce a couple years ago. It took him a while but he eventually got back on his feet... we did a lot of hunting together that year. prayers on the way! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toddyboman Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 You got it! Prayers on the way! Can't imagine going through that.....but as others said take it a day at a time! Look to the future as it is a bright one for you! We are all here if you need us!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hammerforged Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 Done deal Randy, prayers from South Carolina. Hang in there, this too shall pass. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ruttinbuc Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 We are here for you, Randy! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layin on the smackdown Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 Hey Randy, keep your head up pal. This may be your hardest battle in life, but you need to stay strong for yourself and the ones around you. Prayers sent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigbuck145 Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 Prayer sent. Hang in there Randy and like everyone else said take it a day at a time. I been through it myself so i know how you feel bud. Just lean on friends and family and I will keep you in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ilbowman Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 Prayers are on the way from west central illinois as well!! Good luck man and stay positive!! God has a plan for everyone!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Missilelock Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 Im glad to pray for you Randy. Keep your chin up- you are a good man! Lane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NS whitetail Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 I have been there before Randy.................. things will get better and life goes on, keep your chin up and I wish you all the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhino Posted September 16, 2009 Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 Prayers on the way here too Randy. Chin up and hang in there bud. I've been through it too so I have a good idea what the emotional trauma is like that you're experiencing now. Like others have said, one hour at a time and one day at a time. Outside of that try to get out and do some things to take your mind off of it whenever you can. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoosierbuck Posted September 17, 2009 Report Share Posted September 17, 2009 Good news, Randy! Your future is known and planned by One who is doing a better job of it than any of us could. The apparent downside is that it is not known to you. I say apparent because not knowing our future is really a huge blessing to us. Look at all the valuable living we have done that we would have skipped if we had known how it would turn out? You are a product of your own history, and that has molded you into what you need to be for your own future. Just going to have to trust in the Lord and believe he has great things planned for you, which will be revealed when it is time. Keep plugging day by day and then you'll realize that you have gotten past it and you are fine! HB Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randy Posted September 17, 2009 Author Report Share Posted September 17, 2009 I can't thank you all enough for the thoughts, prayers, and pm's. Last night I was having a pretty rough time. I have them often actually. Last night was just a little worse than normal. I get thinking about all the possible outcomes with the child custody and sometimes I can't handle my own thoughts. This divorce is the worst thing I have ever gone though. What started out as a mutual agreement to go our separate ways has turned in to a nightmare. I just want to wake up! I can't imagine not seeing my kids all the time, it almost seems she's become heartless over the past few months. I just don't know what else I can do. I guess time will tell and I'll have to live with it. In the mean time it's hunting season and I have a few lungs to deflate... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike Posted September 17, 2009 Report Share Posted September 17, 2009 I can't thank you all enough for the thoughts, prayers, and pm's. Last night I was having a pretty rough time. I have them often actually. Last night was just a little worse than normal. I get thinking about all the possible outcomes with the child custody and sometimes I can't handle my own thoughts. This divorce is the worst thing I have ever gone though. What started out as a mutual agreement to go our separate ways has turned in to a nightmare. I just want to wake up! I can't imagine not seeing my kids all the time, it almost seems she's become heartless over the past few months. I just don't know what else I can do. I guess time will tell and I'll have to live with it. In the mean time it's hunting season and I have a few lungs to deflate...[/quot Glad your spirits are a lil bit better tonight Randy. Just remember you got friends.... eerrr ahh....Family here that you can count on if you need us!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dartonman Posted September 17, 2009 Report Share Posted September 17, 2009 Prayers sent buddy.......al Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HOYTnMUZZYboy Posted September 17, 2009 Report Share Posted September 17, 2009 I'm so sorry to hear this Randy! Prayers sent. If you need anything dont hesitate to get ahold of me. Were not that far from each other. Maybe we could meet up halfway or somthin and tip a few back. Stay strong buddy! PM me if you want and il get you my number. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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