arrow32 Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 Me and Shelby ended things it looks like for good. I haven't talked to her since Monday night or maybe Sunday and I'm feeling pretty down right now. Thought I was dealing with it just fine really didn't bother me any but its bother me a bit now. Just don't feel like doing to much. Not to sure what I'm going to do now. But in a week I'll be sitting in a treestand so got something to look forward to. Worsed part I'm still paying for a ring I bought her.lol Well I'm done whining now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hunt or be Hunted Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 hey buddy. your not in that boat alone. im the same way. me and my gf ended it Tuesday night not the best thing i know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
woolybear Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 Ahhhhh nuts....you guys need to find something better to do with your time. Go take something apart and turn it to something new. Get your mind off crap and do something you like to do. Got that advise from a friend here myself..... look at me now playing Mc Gyver all day long:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrow32 Posted October 9, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 (edited) I am finding things to do with my time. I'm hanging out with friends all the time. But can't every night. I'm going out all the time having a good time or trying to...just blows. Best friends gone. There is a void. Nothing fills it. Not snuff not cigs not friends. Just that void there is all feel. Edited October 9, 2009 by arrow32 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
birdhunter39 Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 who needs a g/f during hunting season any ways ?? all their going to do is complain that you camo doesn't match your weapon , or why do you have to get up so early to catch any thing , and look at it this way if either of you two ( arrow , hunt or be hunted ) this might be one less Xmas gift you need to buy . plus the two of yous will rebound in a week or more and you two will forget whats her name Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryan1990 Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 I can tell things arent working out for me and my girl of almost 3 years. Its nothing to do with her and all cuz of me. She is dying to be together and for some reason im just not feelin it anymore. Like I cant be wht she deserves ya know? But Im holding on cuz I know I dont wanna lose my best friend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OJR Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 You guys are waaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyy to young to be getting serious about a girl! Live it up and enjoy life as you are without any baggage. You have your whole life ahead of you! Don't get serious about any one girl until you have finished college! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redkneck Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 That's tough. How long did you say you two have been together? She still has the ring? Tough break, sorry things didn't turn out so good. Time heals a lot of things, hope it will be good to you too. PS - If you follow Matt's advice, dont take apart your fridge or microwave, you may need them later, start with the mower - nobody needs one of those. t/c bud Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RangerClay Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 Worsed part I'm still paying for a ring I bought her.lol Well I'm done whining now. Things will get better Cody, trust me. BTW, did you get your ring back? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wtnhunt Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 Keep your chin up Cody, things will get better and there will be new friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adjam5 Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 Keep swinging Cody...many many fish in the sea . Your a fine young man and a better future is on the way. If it wasn't working out, it wasn't working out. No matter how expensive of a ring you bought her. Don't look back...move on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dakota Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 You guys are waaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyy to young to be getting serious about a girl! Live it up and enjoy life as you are without any baggage. You have your whole life ahead of you! Don't get serious about any one girl until you have finished college! Exactly! As for myself, I'm done with all the heartache of dating and am just planning on bach-ing it until the girl that fits all of my qualities and expectations of what I'm looking for in a potential wife comes along. There's just no point in dating someone that you wouldn't want to marry because you know it's going to end sooner or later. And like the others have said...do you want a girl, particularly one that you have no claim on or any commitment to (AKA a wife), to use up all your hunting time? I didn't think so. Dakota Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GWSmith Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 I'd talk to her again...The Ring Back or your not leaving.:hammer1::clown: Her loss...her loss buddy;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrow32 Posted October 9, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 Things will get better Cody, trust me. BTW, did you get your ring back? No I didn't. Oh she also has another ring and a bow. I'll never get any of it back. I don't care about the bow. Its the ring. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkeygirl Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 Money doesn't buy happiness...or as I said at camp one day..."Money don't buy it". Look who's talking, who doesn't have a boy friend, but it's not my priority...and I am not making a commitment to someone, yet. I am enjoying what what God is giving me each day... But really, enjoy life while you can, prioritize. You'll survive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrow32 Posted October 9, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 Money doesn't buy happiness...or as I said at camp one day..."Money don't buy it". Look who's talking, who doesn't have a boy friend, but it's not my priority...and I am not making a commitment to someone, yet. I am enjoying what what God is giving me each day... But really, enjoy life while you can, prioritize. You'll survive. I wasn't trying to buy her love or whatever. Just like to blow money always buying toys. Dad said I couldn't have a new bow right now because I'd just bought one last year so I bought her one. I don't care about finding someone else right now I got huntin to do. But I don't know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkeygirl Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 When it's time, God will put the right girl in front of you...He's got it all planned. That's how I look at it...job, boys, deer hunting, whatever...God is in control Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dakota Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 When it's time, God will put the right girl in front of you...He's got it all planned. That's how I look at it...job, boys, deer hunting, whatever...God is in control Amen! Well said, Ruth. Dakota Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethan Givan Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 You just need some time, it will get better after a while. Some quality time in a treestand would be perfect. That sucks about the ring though. I tell girls up front that I have no money so dont expect anything from me What little money I do have goes towards school and hunting lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevebeilgard Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 Money doesn't buy happiness...or as I said at camp one day..."Money don't buy it". Look who's talking, who doesn't have a boy friend, but it's not my priority...and I am not making a commitment to someone, yet. I am enjoying what what God is giving me each day... But really, enjoy life while you can, prioritize. You'll survive. sorry, ruth, but you are quite wrong here with your opening statement. and i'll proove it. send me a couple thousand, and see how happy i am....:clown::clown::hammer1:. now, your last post about god in controll is better.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
csimon Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 hope things get better for yall. remember the right person will show up when u quit looking for them. that is how i met my wife and with in 3 weeks of dating i knew she was the one for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ricfirefighter Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 with all the heart ache around here maybe next time we need to raise some money we should just raffle off Ruth. Now that would be a catch we would probable make millions:clown: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrow32 Posted October 9, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 with all the heart ache around here maybe next time we need to raise some money we should just raffle off Ruth. Now that would be a catch we would probable make millions:clown: LOL! Thatd make a lil money. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RangerClay Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 Cody, seriously, there are laws about keeping engagment rings. If she broke off the engagment you can get the ring back. Talk to a lawyer or take her to small claims court. DO NOT roll over on this one. Don't let her get away with this again. Seriously! If I were closer I would be there and we would get that ring back. I know you are hurt but do what is right for you. Your broken heart says walk away but you will regret it later when you are stronger. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rem308 Posted October 10, 2009 Report Share Posted October 10, 2009 You guys are waaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyy to young to be getting serious about a girl! Live it up and enjoy life as you are without any baggage. You have your whole life ahead of you! Don't get serious about any one girl until you have finished college! BING! You hit it right on the head OJR. I made a comment like this a few weeks back and caught a lot of argument, but I stand by it. People just need to slow down, take it easy...things will work out for a reason. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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