DocMort Posted October 10, 2009 Report Share Posted October 10, 2009 Hey i am in the same boat as you all. My girl hates me hunting so much so now she is all alone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swohiodave Posted October 10, 2009 Report Share Posted October 10, 2009 guys, i have been in your shoes, i got too serious when i was a teen and early twenties, now i am 26 about to marry a 29 year old i have been dating 2 years and thing are great....she is encouraging me to go hunting in the morning.... it is hard, i know that, but it will get better and more girls will come along. and don't buy jewelry until at least a year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swohiodave Posted October 10, 2009 Report Share Posted October 10, 2009 and DocMort... tell her to get over it!!! at least your not out chasing women or in the bar. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrow32 Posted October 10, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2009 Cody, seriously, there are laws about keeping engagment rings. If she broke off the engagment you can get the ring back. Talk to a lawyer or take her to small claims court. DO NOT roll over on this one. Don't let her get away with this again. Seriously! If I were closer I would be there and we would get that ring back. I know you are hurt but do what is right for you. Your broken heart says walk away but you will regret it later when you are stronger. It wasn't an engagment ring. Do you really think I'm that dumb?LOL Just a thing I guess. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrow32 Posted October 10, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2009 BING! You hit it right on the head OJR. I made a comment like this a few weeks back and caught a lot of argument, but I stand by it. People just need to slow down, take it easy...things will work out for a reason. Hmm...yes things will work out in time. But for now why not date around. Just seems like you always end up getting committed to someone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HUNTINGMAN Posted October 10, 2009 Report Share Posted October 10, 2009 I feel for you guys,remember that women aren't nothing but trouble until they grow up and reach maturity. You guys sound like your still young so remember it it food plot season and got sowe your oats. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dance.and.shoot Posted October 10, 2009 Report Share Posted October 10, 2009 (edited) Me and Shelby ended things it looks like for good. I haven't talked to her since Monday night or maybe Sunday and I'm feeling pretty down right now. Thought I was dealing with it just fine really didn't bother me any but its bother me a bit now. Just don't feel like doing to much. Not to sure what I'm going to do now. But in a week I'll be sitting in a treestand so got something to look forward to. Worsed part I'm still paying for a ring I bought her.lol Well I'm done whining now. Hey man. I know it hurts. and it's gonna hurt for a while. Belive me, I know. My fiance broke up with me about a month ago...and has hardly said anything to me. I still have a lot of my stuff down at his apartment and who knows if I'll ever get it back... This is something that noone should ever have to go through because it does hurt so much. You're doing the right thing by keeping busy and hanging out with your friends and people who love you. Hang in there. The pain may not completely go away, but it will get smaller...it just takes time... Edited October 11, 2009 by dance.and.shoot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkeygirl Posted October 10, 2009 Report Share Posted October 10, 2009 I feel for you guys,remember that women aren't nothing but trouble until they grow up and reach maturity. You guys sound like your still young so remember it it food plot season and got sowe your oats. Listen here YOU!:hammer1: Don't be stereotypical.....lol There are girls out there who are kind of idiots...from 6 years of college, I've seen it....wear skirts and sandals in the middle of winter in 10 degrees...make up so heavy, I dunno how they can hold their head up...I'm just like :hammer1::hammer1: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dance.and.shoot Posted October 10, 2009 Report Share Posted October 10, 2009 I've seen it....wear skirts and sandals in the middle of winter in 10 degrees... HaHaHa...I wear shorts and tank tops during Utah's winters....so does that mean i'm an idiot??? LoL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethan Givan Posted October 10, 2009 Report Share Posted October 10, 2009 I wish I could say the pain will eventually leave...but you'll most likely hurt a little for the rest of your life. Thats very encouraging. :bummed: Once he finds someone else, the right somone else, I dont think there will be any more hurt left from this. Time heals. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dance.and.shoot Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Thats very encouraging. :bummed: Once he finds someone else, the right somone else, I dont think there will be any more hurt left from this. Time heals. That is true...which is why i edited my post... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryan1990 Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Thats very encouraging. :bummed: Once he finds someone else, the right somone else, I dont think there will be any more hurt left from this. Time heals. Nothin will get you over a girl quicker than hookin up with a new one. Instant cure. Who cares if you are still hurtin deep down best thing to do is just keep your emotions bottled up forever and everytime you feel like letting things out just repress it :shifty: works every time lol Seriouly though ethan is right, it may take time but you will definatly heal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layin on the smackdown Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Ahhhhh nuts....you guys need to find something better to do with your time. Go take something apart and turn it to something new. Get your mind off crap and do something you like to do. Got that advise from a friend here myself..... look at me now playing Mc Gyver all day long This is obvious....he told me the other day i could eat box elder bugs, and alot of other bugs, as long as i didn't eat the wings...then he shows up on here with instructions on how to make a heater with a flash light... This is good advice, and sounds like it came from someone with a bit of experience...LMAO!!! That's tough. How long did you say you two have been together? She still has the ring? Tough break, sorry things didn't turn out so good. Time heals a lot of things, hope it will be good to you too. PS - If you follow Matt's advice, dont take apart your fridge or microwave, you may need them later, start with the mower - nobody needs one of those. t/c bud Ditto that....Well put Johnboy, especially about leaving the microwave alone...its just about winter, go for the lawnmower... In all seriousness, i hope it goes quick. I know it can be tough, but if its not meant to be, then there is no reason to force it...Keep your head up bud. dan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rem308 Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Hmm...yes things will work out in time. But for now why not date around. Just seems like you always end up getting committed to someone. yes, that's what I'm saying...thing will work out, and in the meantime, get out and make new friends, go on some dates, have a good time. In my experience, you meet the best people when you're not 'looking'. Does that make sense? Well, best of luck to you...hang in there, and you'll be fine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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