Randy Posted February 7, 2010 Report Share Posted February 7, 2010 I haven't forgotten you guys. It's been a crazy last few months and it doesn't look like it's going to get any better soon. The divorce seems to not be moving along. We are still fighting over the placement schedule of the kids. For some reason she seems to feel she is more their mommy than I am their daddy. I'm fighting for 50/50 custody and she doesn't like that. To make a long story short, it's an absolute mess... I get to see my kids almost every day. I have them from 2pm til 7pm Sunday through Saturday on my weeks and monday through Friday 2pm til 5pm on her weeks. Avery is involved in a lot of activities which has been keeping me running. The kids are both doing great and seem to be very happy, given the circumstances. We got appointed a Guardium ad litem (sp?) which is basically a lawyer for the kids, and I'm waiting for a response from her. Hopefully I'll get a little good news this week. Anyways, I'm sure I have a ton of catching up to do and I'll try and get caught up eventually. If there are some real important post that I have missed maybe some of you could just post the links in this thread so I can catch up a little. Thank you ALL for your thoughts and prayers and I'll try to get back in here a little more often. God Bless ya!! Randy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
92xj Posted February 7, 2010 Report Share Posted February 7, 2010 Stay strong Randy, Prayers are still being said. Everything will work out for the best, just keep your head up and stay strong for yourself and the kids. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NS whitetail Posted February 7, 2010 Report Share Posted February 7, 2010 yup, stay strong Randy ......... I wish ya all the best and like I told ya before, if ya ever need to vent or whatever, shoot me a PM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ruttinbuc Posted February 7, 2010 Report Share Posted February 7, 2010 Hope it all works out for you, Randy! Good to see you back on the threads. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevebeilgard Posted February 7, 2010 Report Share Posted February 7, 2010 divorce is seldom pretty, and even less seldom in favor of the guy. i sure hope all works out well for you, randy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adjam5 Posted February 7, 2010 Report Share Posted February 7, 2010 Hang in there Randy. Take the high road and don't get dragged into BS. Just be the best Dad you possibly can. Prayers headed your way Pal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shaun_300 Posted February 7, 2010 Report Share Posted February 7, 2010 Nice to hear from you Randy, been wondering how things have been going for you! Don't back down to your Ex about the kids, fight for your time with them and don't give her any slack! Good luck with everything buddy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkeygirl Posted February 7, 2010 Report Share Posted February 7, 2010 Ask for strength from the Guy up above. One day at a time, things will smooth out over time. It could always be worse. You aren't missing too much around here...the usual drama and what not,lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wtnhunt Posted February 7, 2010 Report Share Posted February 7, 2010 Glad to see you check in Randy. Hope everything works out for the best for you and for the kids. Gotta agree with Anthony, just be the best dad you can be and don't fall into all the bs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HuntnMa Posted February 7, 2010 Report Share Posted February 7, 2010 nice to see ya...keeping you and the kids in my thoughts and prayers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hammerforged Posted February 7, 2010 Report Share Posted February 7, 2010 Hang in there Randy, prayers continuing from South Carolina. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PotashRLS Posted February 7, 2010 Report Share Posted February 7, 2010 Glad to hear things are tolerable. Hope they get better with each passing day. Put your kids first and you'll be okay. God Bless. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layin on the smackdown Posted February 7, 2010 Report Share Posted February 7, 2010 Hang in there Randy...Great to hear you are doing alright considering. Stay strong and keep your head up...you'll get through it bud. continued prayers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Diamond Archer 01 Posted February 7, 2010 Report Share Posted February 7, 2010 Hang in there Randy. Prayers headed for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
craig mack Posted February 7, 2010 Report Share Posted February 7, 2010 Hang in there Randy and good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashley Posted February 8, 2010 Report Share Posted February 8, 2010 I hope everything works out for you Randy! Stay strong and remember we're all here for you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
camoman1 Posted February 8, 2010 Report Share Posted February 8, 2010 Good to hear from you man, stay strong! Hope you can get all that figured out the right way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toddyboman Posted February 8, 2010 Report Share Posted February 8, 2010 Great to hear from you! Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers as you go through the craziness! Keep the faith and good luck! Stop back by when you can....cause we ALL are always here!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randy Posted February 15, 2010 Author Report Share Posted February 15, 2010 Thanks everyone. It's been three and a half weeks since we met with the G.A.L. She said she would be back to us in a week. I called her three times to try and get some answers and now she see's this as I'm trying to be controlling. :jaw: If it's not one things it's another... As of this moment, I haven't heard anything from her. I'm thinking I may be a little passive aggressive when she calls and not return her call for a few days. These people don't seem to know how much stress the unknown actually adds to us. I hope all is well with everyone and I'll try and get back in here soon. Take care and God Bless! Randy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ruttinbuc Posted February 15, 2010 Report Share Posted February 15, 2010 Hang in there, buddy! You are right about the stress. Keep up the good fight. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PA_Spike_King Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 I'm still praying for ya man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.