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mossyhorn

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I havent been on here in some time now. Well I have been doing pretty bad the last little bit. About 7 weeks ago my wife told me she wasnt happy with our marriage and want a divorce. I have tried talking to her and flat out begging her to stay but nothing would sway her. For the last month I have lived in a home that was soon to no longer be mine. There was no tv, no internet, no even a stinking deck of cards. I just moved out last week and the internet was tunred on today but just wanted to stop in a say hi to everyone and let them in on whats going on....Be good everybody.

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I'm sorry to hear that. I have a good friend that's going through the same thing, he's made a good salary as a parts manager at a ford dealership for 15 years, and she's never had a job in her life, but decided after 16 years of marriage she needed to move on. Not to detract from your situation but you can only control what you do, and no matter how much you love someone you can't change them. I wish you the best, I know it's got to be a hard thing to deal with.

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I've been going through the same thing since July 14th last year. Right now as your world seemingly crumbles away, just remember that it WILL get better and the best thing you can do is keep your head up and try your best to move forward. We are here for ya!

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Well I am renting a house with some friends now and thats helping a lot because i dont have to sit anlone all night. But sitting by myself for a month let me get some thinking done and helped me start healing really. I mean yeah I started to lose my mind up there but I think it was for the best. Once i realized it wasnt going to go back I started going out to friends houses and just relaxing a little bit. I know I am not over it yet but I have started moving on. Yesterday would have been 3 years of marriage. Yesterday was also my first day in my new house. But we are on good terms I told her a long time ago if she ever wanted out to tell me because I would rather deal with the pain the be in a loveless marriage. I guess she did listen to me on that one. But thanks a lot guys. I just need bow season to hurry and come around then I can be at one with myself again.

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