hunter109 Posted September 10, 2010 Author Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 well like the advise well i gess no one here likes to talk about this stuff well i gess some of you like to give advise and i am going to take most of it well thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fawn09 Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 109- Just be patient and one day the right woman will come to you. Just be yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunter109 Posted September 10, 2010 Author Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 yep thats what i am good at being my self well anything else Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
woolybear Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 Glad to help 109. You may want to practice that lisp on your buddies first.:cowboy: There's a very fine line between lisping, and slurring or stuttering. I f you wind up spitting at all your doing it all wrong! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunter109 Posted September 10, 2010 Author Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 why you say i do that i am my self andthats all i can be but ant no one want a farm working country boy there ant many chicks like that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fawn09 Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 yep thats what i am good at being my self well anything else That's all you really need to do. Be yourself and Don't show off too much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fawn09 Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 why you say i do that i am my self andthats all i can be but ant no one want a farm working country boy there ant many chicks like that You never know 109, there are a lot of ladies out in the world. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunter109 Posted September 10, 2010 Author Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 the only time i show off is if someone starts a fight with me thats it but i am my self the rest of the time well i dont drink because of to many fights i dont like hurting anyone but i use to not no more Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fawn09 Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 the only time i show off is if someone starts a fight with me thats it but i am my self the rest of the time well i dont drink because of to many fights i dont like hurting anyone but i use to not no more See it's a good thing then you don't fight anymore. You'll find a woman one day who likes you for you, no matter what. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunter109 Posted September 10, 2010 Author Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 i mean that is when i was drinking i still go with my uncle and friends but dont drink because i know i would get in a fight and i still have to fight sometimes because my friends and uncle starts stuff and then i have to get them out of it well latter intill you all write back with a responts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunter109 Posted September 10, 2010 Author Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 yea i know i mean i was not going to try and start fights but i mostlikly would still end up in one i get my but kick and i kick alot f but i am done with all that stuff inless someone starts with me or someone in my fam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fawn09 Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 Just don't drink and walk away when you think your going to end up in a fight. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunter109 Posted September 10, 2010 Author Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 yeabut i hve a temper that if some one if going to sit there and start stuff they need to get beat down i get up and they leave most of the time but i leave to if i ant in the mood to fight Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fawn09 Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 "yeabut i hve a temper that if some one if going to sit there and start stuff they need to get beat down" The easiest thing to do is to just walk away. They may be saying something like that because they have low self-esteem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunter109 Posted September 10, 2010 Author Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 well yea i know Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fawn09 Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 well yea i know Then there isn't nothing to fight about. If you know it's them and not you, just walk away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
92xj Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 I am confused on what advice you're looking for. Be confident in whatever you do. Tell me what exactly you want. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BowJoe Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 If you don't take the steps to improve yourself, no common sense girl will want you. Unless you can hold a conversation beyond sounding obsessed with wanting to be with her and loving her and calling and texting her all of the time, she will find the guy that doesn't need her but just wants to be with her. It's a basic premise (rule) of life that something given has no value. When you give her all of your affection and time and effort, what is left for her to do in the relationship? She then sees no reason to make an effort in the relationship and the fun of earning your affection is gone. Believe it or not, humans are the most ignorant people on the planet when it comes to the opposite sex. We only want someone we feel we are lucky to have. In order for her to feel lucky to have you, you have to raise your relationship value. Think of people on a scale of $1 to $10,000. If you're self worth is at $10 then you're never gonna get a girl whose self worth is at $3,000. Now if a girl's self worth is at $3,000 and yours is at $2,000 then you have a shot because you can make her think you're worth having. But no girl will want you if you give it to them. By it, I mean time, effort, calls, texts, gifts, whining about where she's been, who she's been with and when you'll see her next. All of those things are giving everything to her and she has no reason to work for your affection. You have to make a girl earn your affection. You can't give it away. Also, remember the golden rule of dating. A girl always wants a guy she can fix but not a guy she has to take to a professional and have him completely rebuilt. Shave, shower, wear cologne... on the subject of cologne follow this iron clad rule; if you shop for your cologne in a store like Penny's or Dillard's or Macy's or somewhere that sells suits and has a cologne counter, always, always, always, ask no less than 10 girls in the store what cologne smells best to them before you buy another drop of smelly stuff. Drag them back to the counter if you have to but get their opinion before you lay down some cash. Oh and be prepared to spend around $60 on a bottle. Trust me, you can thank me later. Go with what they like and not what you like. They are, after all, your target and the second impression you give a woman beyond your looks is how you smell. I had a rule that I never left home without a bottle of cologne in my glove box. That and protection but you get the idea. I could go on and I hope I didn't make you mad about the education thing but it's truly important to at least have common sense and be smarter than a 5th grader to get with a girl and settle down. Nobody likes a 30 year old single guy because they instantly wonder what's wrong with you. Sure single guys get women but they have laid the ground work. You my friend are starting from scratch and haven't even got the floor plan picked out. I wish you the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunter109 Posted September 10, 2010 Author Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 i just want to find a girl that there ex boyfriends dont want to fight because i will fight them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layin on the smackdown Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 (edited) i mean that is when i was drinking i still go with my uncle and friends but dont drink because i know i would get in a fight and i still have to fight sometimes because my friends and uncle starts stuff and then i have to get them out of it well latter intill you all write back with a responts Well 109...If you still get in fights when you go to the bar with friends and relatives even when you're not drinking, then what was the point of quiting anyway... Sounds like the drinking didnt have much to do with the fighting....maybe the fighting had something to do with the drinking, or lack thereof... Regardelss.... 1.) stay out of bars... 2.) dont drink if it makes you turn into the hulk... 3.) and if fighting is your way of showing off, then take it to the next level...quit hiding behind it and enter some type of big man competition - if women dig you when you fight, then you'll have to fight them off of you at the end of the night....then the ball is in your court... I can't believe i contributed to this AGAIN.... Forget about leading the horse to water BS...Lets just put some lead in its head, and call it dead... Edited September 10, 2010 by layin on the smackdown Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
92xj Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 i just want to find a girl that there ex boyfriends dont want to fight because i will fight them Okay Okay, we get the fighting thing. It's not manly to fight or to talk about fighting as much as you do. And don't respond saying you dont do it anymore. I hear ya. Just dont talk about it either. I don't think there is much more I can do. I will leave you with parting words. Be whoever you want to be, dont fall in love, dont look for girls, learn to type. Showing that you have an education goes along way with the lady kind. They like country boys as long as they show them they have a good head on their shoulders and can be proper and smart when needed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
92xj Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 Actually, I would just give up. Go buy a dog or goat or something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layin on the smackdown Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 Is this the end of chapter 8 or the beginning of chapter 9 ? I'll finish it off.... And here's the rest of the story.... Take all the advice given to you from all of these knowledgeable individuals who have participated in this thread, copy and paste it all onto a word document... title it "The Mans Book on How To Figure Out the Impossible"... get a copywrite and a patent on it so no one else can steal it...send it to print...make a few copies and sell it to a well known novel/book distributor for a couple billion dollars...when all is said and done, this girl will be stalking you from your front gate which will be armed and aided by snipers, even including yourself, and then the ball will be in your court...Actually you'll be so busy dealing with women, that you'll be back here in no time trying to figure out which one you should allow into your mansion.... THE END good luck with everything 109, in all honesty i hope it all works out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
92xj Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 Is this the end of chapter 8 or the beginning of chapter 9 ? I'll finish it off.... And here's the rest of the story.... Take all the advice given to you from all of these knowledgeable individuals who have participated in this thread, copy and paste it all onto a word document... title it "The Mans Book on How To Figure Out the Impossible"... get a copywrite and a patent on it so no one else can steal it...send it to print...make a few copies and sell it to a well known novel/book distributor for a couple billion dollars...when all is said and done, this girl will be stalking you from your front gate which will be armed and aided by snipers, even including yourself, and then the ball will be in your court...Actually you'll be so busy dealing with women, that you'll be back here in no time trying to figure out which one you should allow into your mansion.... THE END good luck with everything 109, in all honesty i hope it all works out. WHOA!!!! If this is done, I want the option to truly type everything I would really want to say and risk the banning from RT. That could be a great book, but this thread has only received about 3.9745% of what I would really do. And if you do this book thing anyways, without me getting everything out, I do not give you permission to use my stuff untill you ask me nicely and we have a contract. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BowJoe Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 So I spend over an hour thinking and typing a response to this kid and it's deleted? So my posts are no longer wanted here? Who's decision was this to delete my post? Has the RT forums come to this where honesty is not wanted, only poking and making fun of this kid is acceptable? I'm a little hacked about this and if my posts are not wanted then delete my account immediately and you'll never see my participation on here again. Kinda sick of the double standard on here. I was offering good solid advice to this kid and not making fun of him or laughing at him like a lot of other posts on this thread did. And ya'll wonder why people don't come on here anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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