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Ok, so, no not really on the help, just a fun little topic to bring up. The topic shall be Blind Dates.

So, I get a text from a lady friend that says she is talking to a female at the gym that really wants to go out on a date, grab dinner and a beer, and just hang out with me this weekend. She will not tell me which girl at the gym it is for some reason, she just said I will recognize her when I see her and that she sees me all the time there but never has the guts to come talk to me. (I feel like I am in high school all over again, oh what fun! seriously, fun stuff! )

I dont know anyone else at the gym but my lady friend, so I know I don't know her.

Blind dates in the past have been a lot of fun and also some huge train wrecks.

I have no problem talking, keeping a conversation going, making them laugh and putting food and drink in them in a romantic manner.

I don't really have a question for you guys and dont need any advice. I might go just to have some fun, but still on the fence right now.

Figured this could be a good story time topic if any of you people have funny or serious stories about blind dates you have been on to try and help the love sick people here.

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Yup heres a funny blind date story. My buddy Stan hooked up with this chick Ashley on a blind date. Things got serious and they became a couple.

About 2 months into the relationship they found it ironic they both had family reunions. Ashley got to talking to her grandma about it and they were 3rd cousins lol!

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Yup heres a funny blind date story. My buddy Stan hooked up with this chick Ashley on a blind date. Things got serious and they became a couple.

About 2 months into the relationship they found it ironic they both had family reunions. Ashley got to talking to her grandma about it and they were 3rd cousins lol!

Oooof.

Did they still date?

Edit: were they both invited to the family reunion with seperate invitations?

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Only went on 1. My dad set it up. A friend he worked with had a niece that had never dated anyone in the past. I said ok as a favor to my dad more than anything. Drove an hour and a half to get there. We met, grabbed a pizza I think, I dropped her off and went home. That was it. She had a "butter face" but that was it. Zero sparks. Nice girl, but it was like taking my sister out on a date. :serenade:

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I remember the only blind date I ever had. The girl was a looker and nice to,my friends wife set me up with her. It's been a long time ago and I was fresh out of a devorce,this could have been an easy date but I ended up getting plastered and puked all over the place. She wasn't to happy with me so I told her a few choice words and never heard from her again.

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easy way to find out... pick a place that you can see the entrance, and get there early! when the arrangements are made sit in your car and wait to see if you recognize anyone going in. thats what i did on the only blind date i have ever been set up on. and needless to say when i saw who it was i did not go in.

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Have a buddy call you 10 minutes after the scheduled meeting time... Just to check in and give you an out for an "emergency"..... Gives you enough time to meet, drink a beer, assess the situation and decide if you want to stick it out or not.

At least she goes to the gym so that's a plus might be a hottie

on the other hand could use a lot of help

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You got nothing else to do but sit around the house and play with your skulls and ducks so why not?

Ditto. Why not just go and see what happens. She could be hot (if she's a regular at the gym I don't see why she wouldn't be) and you two might just hit it off.....and it will only cost you a cheeseburger a few beers to find out.

That being said I've only been on one blind date and it didn't turn out so pretty good. Nothing like HUNTINGMAN's date, but still not too good.

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Have a buddy call you 10 minutes after the scheduled meeting time... Just to check in and give you an out for an "emergency"..... Gives you enough time to meet, drink a beer, assess the situation and decide if you want to stick it out or not.

At least she goes to the gym so that's a plus might be a hottie

on the other hand could use a lot of help

No need for an emergency out, if its not going how I want it to go or I just don't feel like, I have no problem telling the females and walking away. One thing I have learned from college and relationships, either year long ones or one night ones, if I'm not feeling it at any certain point I let them know and walk away. I have come to this conclusion after an hour of talking and meeting someone and other times it has taken me a couple of years.

(if she's a regular at the gym I don't see why she wouldn't be)

Have you been to the gym lately? Just because they are in shape or work out does not mean shes hot. There are quite a few ugly skinny chick, haha

Dude, I've been married for 20 years to the SAAAAMMMEEEEE woman, go on the date as a favor to me. I'd love to hear what it is like to sit across from a woman and have them ask for my true opinion, not sit across from me and tell me my opinion. LOL Have fun you can rest when your dead

Yeah, scratch that whole married thing, I have too much fun going out on dates or going out and meeting all kinds of random women.

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No need for an emergency out, if its not going how I want it to go or I just don't feel like, I have no problem telling the females and walking away. One thing I have learned from college and relationships, either year long ones or one night ones, if I'm not feeling it at any certain point I let them know and walk away. I have come to this conclusion after an hour of talking and meeting someone and other times it has taken me a couple of years.

Have you been to the gym lately? Just because they are in shape or work out does not mean shes hot. There are quite a few ugly skinny chick, haha

Yeah, scratch that whole married thing, I have too much fun going out on dates or going out and meeting all kinds of random women.

There's a word used to describe a guy like you, but for the sake of keeping myself out of hot water, I will keep that word to myself.

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