Steven Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 You remember my girlfriend? The Asian girl I'd been with for 1 1/2 years. Well, we broke up a few days ago. She did something unforgivable in my opinion. We'll just say, I was supposed to be a father in July, but without even telling me, she went to a clinic and ended that idea a couple of months ago. The only reason I found out is she got my best friend's wife to go with while I was at school. I was talking to her [friend's wife] the other day and she mentioned it [expressing her condolences] assuming I knew. Now she feels horrible. The bad part is she won't tell me why. Some have suggested that it might not be mine, but I really don't think that's the case. She probably just got scared. We were also planning on getting married, obviously that's over. So, C'est la vie, I guess. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LifeNRA Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 Wow! Sorry to hear this Steven! Time heals all wounds! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grant-KS Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 That is horrible! I'll be praying for ya "Uncle Steven!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buckee Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 That's a shame, especially for you and the baby. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bowtech_archer07 Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 That is horrible to hear.. for you and the baby. It just wasn't meant to be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OJR Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 Sorry to hear this! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shaun_300 Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 Oh man, that's horrible Steven! Hope things turn around for ya soon! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randy Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 Whoa!! Sorry to hear that Steven! I can only imagine what you are going through..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdvantageTimberLou Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 WOW! Sad deal all around, so sorry Steven. Hope the sun shines a little brighter on you in the near future. We're all here for you though. Hang in there, as you know God has a plan for all of us, we may never know the reasons why though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VermontHunter Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 I honestly and truely don't know what to say ... :( Hang in there buddy .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BowJoe Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 My condolences steven. You deserve better than that buddy. At least you didn't end up married to somebody that would do such a thing. Much harder to end a marriage than a relationship. Again, sorry to hear that bud. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrswtnhunt Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 So sorry to hear about that. Just remember, things happen for a reason and God works in mysterious ways. Be glad you discovered how she is before you tied the knot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wtnhunt Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 Sorry to hear this Steven. Kind of lost for words too, but no doubt you deserve better than that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NS whitetail Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 sorry to hear that steven Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RangerClay Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 Steven, My condolences to you and the unborn child. Unfortunately this is a "What might have been" wound that may never heal properly but I'm sure you will meet a nice girl someday and she will help you move on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tominator Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 So sorry to hear about that. Just remember, things happen for a reason and God works in mysterious ways. Be glad you discovered how she is before you tied the knot. Ditto. Don't know what else to say. I think you still have my phone number if you want an ear. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ksbowhntr77 Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 Prayers sent!! Sorry to hear that Steven, the good Lord has someone else for you in mind I'm sure. All things happen for a reason, good or bad. It's all part of the Big Guy's Plan, we just don't get to see the blueprints. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevebeilgard Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 i'm happy for you. you were able to find out her true character before getting married. and, you are better off for it. sorry about your baby. that is the real crime here... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toddyboman Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 WOW! So sorry to hear this Steven.......glad you found out now than years down the road.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davetucker Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 awe man that is not right!!but god has a reason for everything.if you can talkabout it maybe it was meant to growthe relationshipbetween the both of you.sounds like your a pretty ethical guy steve so try to talk to her and see what for any reason she did such a horrible thing,like you dasid maybe she was scared or something was looming in her mind.but give it chancea yr and a half is a long time to give up on.did you think you knew her the best you could? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhino Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 I don't know what to say either Steven. :( I sure hope you meet the woman of your dreams. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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