In all honesty, I feel, even as an early warning you argued with your ex wife today does not even justify what you said...here in my only two cents I have left, as its been a trying day for all of us in some way or another. Mike (Toopointer) is our focus at this time, and its unfortunate that the twins died, so sad indeed, and I dont feel it was your intent per se to bash the fundraiser at this time...I really dont, because you have been quite the asset to the forum....but that being said, some words will be and have been taken in poor taste, and we all need to reflect on what we have left of the good, and move from the bad......everything comes from the heart, and we all have been fortunate and unfortunate at some time in our lives......we all had times where we didn't have a pot to pee in, or a window to throw it out of.......Im sorry the fundraiser bothers you, I truly am, but dont let an argument with an ex wife reflect on how things go for others that dont have the chance to hang the phone up on her. al