I agree with your sentiment, and find many so called "role models" (Think Myley Cyrus....BLECH!) to be as vile and sickening as you do. IIRC, you have 3 girls, I do as well .. albeit younger than yours. I feel the same responsibility to install a sense of self worth and confidence in my girls and the same burden to provide a positive example for my son as you do. I work incredibly hard to provide for the family so my wife can be home with them. I volunteer my expertise, often for extended periods of time and at great inconvenience, for the better of my community, the idea of helping others makes me feel good. I have morals, I don't take advantage of others and I know plenty of people who are not Christian and are GOOD people working to make the world a better place. I hope you can see this, because the notion of "you can't be good unless you're Christian" is divisive and doesn't help in any way.